1 00:00:01,552 --> 00:00:03,552 I'm gonna pour my drink on her. 2 00:00:03,912 --> 00:00:05,092 Can you muzzle your woman? 3 00:00:05,192 --> 00:00:07,192 You're not coming for my husband. 4 00:00:08,352 --> 00:00:10,352 Dinner is served. 5 00:00:10,752 --> 00:00:13,492 Welcome to MAFS: After the Reunion. 6 00:00:13,592 --> 00:00:14,972 Different names, same recipe. 7 00:00:15,072 --> 00:00:17,572 I'm Jules, here with Laura and Brittany. 8 00:00:17,672 --> 00:00:20,932 The experiment might be over, but we ain't done yet. 9 00:00:21,032 --> 00:00:23,132 There is still so much left unsaid. 10 00:00:23,232 --> 00:00:25,812 And tonight, let me tell you, it is all coming out. 11 00:00:25,912 --> 00:00:28,932 We're back with unseen footage, all the tough questions, 12 00:00:29,032 --> 00:00:31,332 and no one is going to get a free pass. 13 00:00:31,432 --> 00:00:32,772 We have a jam-packed show. 14 00:00:32,872 --> 00:00:34,612 We've brought all the big players. 15 00:00:34,712 --> 00:00:36,492 Bec was left high and dry at reunion. 16 00:00:36,592 --> 00:00:38,812 And tonight she wants answers from Danny. 17 00:00:38,912 --> 00:00:41,692 And hell hath no fury like Bec scorned. 18 00:00:41,792 --> 00:00:44,212 Then Steph will front up to the texting drama 19 00:00:44,312 --> 00:00:46,892 that caused so much chaos at the reunion dinner party. 20 00:00:46,992 --> 00:00:48,332 They broke the nation's heart, 21 00:00:48,432 --> 00:00:51,412 but Rachel and Steven will unpack what really happened 22 00:00:51,512 --> 00:00:52,852 after final vows. 23 00:00:52,952 --> 00:00:54,732 And if there is any hope left, 24 00:00:54,832 --> 00:00:56,972 then Alissa and David come face-to-face. 25 00:00:57,072 --> 00:00:58,412 They've still got a score to settle, 26 00:00:58,512 --> 00:01:01,292 and they'll do it right here on this very couch. 27 00:01:01,392 --> 00:01:03,532 And last but certainly not least, 28 00:01:03,632 --> 00:01:06,772 Stella is here with some very special bling on her finger. 29 00:01:06,872 --> 00:01:09,612 And she's also brought her fiancé along as well. 30 00:01:09,712 --> 00:01:11,172 And, I mean, honestly, I'm just exhausted 31 00:01:11,272 --> 00:01:12,372 just thinking about it all. 32 00:01:12,472 --> 00:01:14,772 Yeah, I thought maybe the relationship dust 33 00:01:14,872 --> 00:01:17,212 would have settled, but there's just more twists and turns. 34 00:01:17,312 --> 00:01:19,532 Settled? I feel like it's just starting to kick back up again. 35 00:01:19,632 --> 00:01:20,772 It's insane. 36 00:01:20,872 --> 00:01:22,772 I also kind of feel pretty sad that, like, 37 00:01:22,872 --> 00:01:24,772 I mean, I'm so happy for Stella and Filip, 38 00:01:24,872 --> 00:01:27,052 but I do feel sad that Rachel and Steven didn't work out 39 00:01:27,152 --> 00:01:28,452 and that there's no other couples! 40 00:01:28,552 --> 00:01:29,652 It's not over. 41 00:01:29,752 --> 00:01:31,412 I reckon we could get them over the line tonight. 42 00:01:31,512 --> 00:01:32,612 That's what I'm thinking! 43 00:01:32,712 --> 00:01:34,052 I think we play matchmaker again. 44 00:01:34,152 --> 00:01:35,372 I think there's still love there. 45 00:01:35,472 --> 00:01:36,892 I'm not convinced it's over. 46 00:01:36,992 --> 00:01:40,292 Well, look, Danny was due to arrive 30 minutes ago, 47 00:01:40,392 --> 00:01:42,492 but let me tell you, he is still not here. 48 00:01:42,592 --> 00:01:43,772 We booked his flights. 49 00:01:43,872 --> 00:01:45,212 We're just not sure if he's on it. 50 00:01:45,312 --> 00:01:47,212 The last we heard, he wanted to negotiate 51 00:01:47,312 --> 00:01:49,692 a little bit of moolah, which is a big no from us. 52 00:01:49,792 --> 00:01:51,052 Feels like he's taking 53 00:01:51,152 --> 00:01:52,613 something out of the Gia playbook, right? 54 00:01:52,713 --> 00:01:54,213 Like, I'm gonna come, no, I'm not. 55 00:01:54,313 --> 00:01:56,893 I think it's rich because Danny was the one who sat here 56 00:01:56,993 --> 00:01:59,453 and said that the people who don't show up 57 00:01:59,553 --> 00:02:01,373 are the people who can't take accountability. 58 00:02:01,473 --> 00:02:04,013 And it seems like he now, who's in the hot seat 59 00:02:04,113 --> 00:02:05,253 he can't take the accountability. 60 00:02:05,353 --> 00:02:07,333 He needs to be accountable for his unaccountability. 61 00:02:07,433 --> 00:02:10,253 Yeah, well, the mask has officially slipped 62 00:02:10,353 --> 00:02:11,853 and now you can't face the music, Danny. 63 00:02:11,953 --> 00:02:14,373 We hope you show up, but we must forge ahead. 64 00:02:14,473 --> 00:02:16,373 Well, let's kick it off with Rachel and Steven. 65 00:02:16,473 --> 00:02:18,533 They had the whole nation behind them 66 00:02:18,633 --> 00:02:20,173 as they navigated the experiment. 67 00:02:20,273 --> 00:02:22,893 But despite walking away together at the final vowels, 68 00:02:22,993 --> 00:02:24,993 things quickly turned sour. 69 00:02:27,433 --> 00:02:29,433 - This is it. - I know. 70 00:02:31,713 --> 00:02:33,713 Oh, going to cry. 71 00:02:34,833 --> 00:02:37,333 Long distance is one of our biggest challenges. 72 00:02:37,433 --> 00:02:39,593 I'm going to have some serious thinking to do. 73 00:02:40,553 --> 00:02:43,013 Being away from Rachel, I've realised that, 74 00:02:43,113 --> 00:02:44,773 yeah, I do have deep feelings for her. 75 00:02:44,873 --> 00:02:46,373 My biggest fear is that 76 00:02:46,473 --> 00:02:50,173 I will not meet Rachel's expectations. 77 00:02:50,273 --> 00:02:52,273 Oh, my god. Wow. 78 00:02:53,593 --> 00:02:55,333 You look beautiful. 79 00:02:55,433 --> 00:02:57,533 I've never felt for anyone what I feel for you. 80 00:02:57,633 --> 00:02:59,773 I want this. 81 00:02:59,873 --> 00:03:01,053 I want you. 82 00:03:01,153 --> 00:03:02,853 I choose you. 83 00:03:02,953 --> 00:03:04,953 And I'm diving in. 84 00:03:11,353 --> 00:03:13,353 Like a fairy tale ending, isn't it? 85 00:03:18,113 --> 00:03:20,113 Steven and I have broken up. 86 00:03:21,273 --> 00:03:23,253 I'm single again. 87 00:03:23,353 --> 00:03:25,293 Oh, girl. 88 00:03:25,393 --> 00:03:28,453 - Darling. - Oh, Rachey. 89 00:03:28,553 --> 00:03:31,113 - No! - Oh, no. 90 00:03:32,113 --> 00:03:33,413 I can't believe we've broken up. 91 00:03:33,513 --> 00:03:35,793 I'm hurt. I mean, I am hurt, I'm devastated. 92 00:03:36,873 --> 00:03:38,333 I'm not wearing my ring, 93 00:03:38,433 --> 00:03:44,954 but I do have it on me just in case. 94 00:03:52,274 --> 00:03:53,534 Guys, I... 95 00:03:53,634 --> 00:03:55,534 I have to ask, where are you at? 96 00:03:55,634 --> 00:03:57,694 His work is busy. 97 00:03:57,794 --> 00:03:59,294 All, like, basically throughout the year, 98 00:03:59,394 --> 00:04:00,814 and winter's his free time. 99 00:04:00,914 --> 00:04:03,974 So that's when he can give the relationship more. 100 00:04:04,074 --> 00:04:06,074 But that's not how relationships work. 101 00:04:06,554 --> 00:04:07,814 It's not seasonal. 102 00:04:07,914 --> 00:04:10,154 I think it's a cop out and here's why. 103 00:04:10,874 --> 00:04:13,134 You're saying, I think this is the one for me, 104 00:04:13,234 --> 00:04:16,234 but I'm not prepared to make any sacrifices. 105 00:04:16,714 --> 00:04:18,174 You're telling her all the things 106 00:04:18,274 --> 00:04:21,874 that will give her hope and then doing nothing about it. 107 00:04:23,314 --> 00:04:26,714 Now, do you want to be with Rachel? 108 00:04:28,994 --> 00:04:31,254 - Yes or no? - Just own it. Just own it. 109 00:04:31,354 --> 00:04:32,454 Come on, Stevo, be honest. 110 00:04:32,554 --> 00:04:33,654 Set her free. 111 00:04:33,754 --> 00:04:36,694 Too much. 112 00:04:36,794 --> 00:04:38,794 This is really unfair now. 113 00:04:39,274 --> 00:04:41,274 I'm just going to... 114 00:04:43,874 --> 00:04:45,874 put a bullet in it and just say no. 115 00:04:48,074 --> 00:04:49,414 Rachel. Stevo. 116 00:04:49,514 --> 00:04:50,614 Oh! 117 00:04:50,714 --> 00:04:51,814 Guys, welcome back. 118 00:04:51,914 --> 00:04:53,054 Thanks. Thanks for having us. 119 00:04:53,154 --> 00:04:54,334 It's heartbreaking to see. 120 00:04:54,434 --> 00:04:56,214 And we have all been rallying for you guys. 121 00:04:56,314 --> 00:04:58,574 Honestly, that came as a huge surprise. 122 00:04:58,674 --> 00:04:59,894 How are you feeling now? 123 00:04:59,994 --> 00:05:01,694 It's really sad. 124 00:05:01,794 --> 00:05:03,654 It's not normal, guys, you don't want to break up 125 00:05:03,754 --> 00:05:05,774 with someone, then watch your beautiful love story back. 126 00:05:05,874 --> 00:05:10,534 Watching our final vowels, like, going back to that moment. 127 00:05:10,634 --> 00:05:13,974 And I was like, I was a girl in love and you could see it 128 00:05:14,074 --> 00:05:15,734 all over me, right? 129 00:05:15,834 --> 00:05:17,174 And so that's hard to relive. 130 00:05:17,274 --> 00:05:19,574 And I think that's where the emotion comes from. 131 00:05:19,674 --> 00:05:21,014 Well, it's an emotional roller coaster 132 00:05:21,114 --> 00:05:22,454 watching everything back. 133 00:05:22,554 --> 00:05:26,134 And I always have that, you know, regret of, like, 134 00:05:26,234 --> 00:05:28,094 yeah, I sort of think I could have done things 135 00:05:28,194 --> 00:05:29,414 a little bit better. 136 00:05:29,514 --> 00:05:32,214 Of, like, actually let me, let me resay that a lot better. 137 00:05:32,314 --> 00:05:35,214 Stevo, you saying, I'm just going to put a bullet in it, 138 00:05:35,314 --> 00:05:38,055 which I think was more like putting your foot in it? 139 00:05:38,155 --> 00:05:40,175 It was very hard to watch. 140 00:05:40,275 --> 00:05:42,335 Yeah, bad choice of words. 141 00:05:42,435 --> 00:05:44,375 I tend to do that. However... 142 00:05:44,475 --> 00:05:47,295 Look, it was a very emotional moment, high-pressure moment. 143 00:05:47,395 --> 00:05:48,895 And part of me just didn't want to 144 00:05:48,995 --> 00:05:51,055 really say no either. 145 00:05:51,155 --> 00:05:53,455 To this day, I still think, you know, 146 00:05:53,555 --> 00:05:54,695 was that the right decision? 147 00:05:54,795 --> 00:05:56,055 Could have I done things differently? 148 00:05:56,155 --> 00:05:57,935 To this day, I've still got my regrets and the what-ifs. 149 00:05:58,035 --> 00:05:59,895 But what is it over? I'm so confused by this. 150 00:05:59,995 --> 00:06:02,135 Like, you came onto this show for love. You got love. 151 00:06:02,235 --> 00:06:04,815 Do you not want a partner or do you not want Rachel? 152 00:06:04,915 --> 00:06:06,055 I'm confused. 153 00:06:06,155 --> 00:06:09,975 Part of me thinks that I wasn't good enough for Rachel. 154 00:06:10,075 --> 00:06:11,455 I've sort of set her free. 155 00:06:11,555 --> 00:06:13,855 And to find someone better than me. 156 00:06:13,955 --> 00:06:15,535 I think that's really unfair. 157 00:06:15,635 --> 00:06:17,295 I'm so sorry. 158 00:06:17,395 --> 00:06:23,415 I spent three months with you, lifting you up, celebrating you. 159 00:06:23,515 --> 00:06:28,035 I was going to pick up my life and move for you. 160 00:06:29,875 --> 00:06:31,935 You were the one I wanted to be with. 161 00:06:32,035 --> 00:06:33,735 How many times did you actually see each other when, 162 00:06:33,835 --> 00:06:34,935 after final vows? 163 00:06:35,035 --> 00:06:36,135 Once. 164 00:06:36,235 --> 00:06:37,495 And that's when you broke up? 165 00:06:37,595 --> 00:06:38,695 For less than 48 hours. 166 00:06:38,795 --> 00:06:40,575 But that doesn't really feel like giving it a real go 167 00:06:40,675 --> 00:06:41,775 in the real world. 168 00:06:41,875 --> 00:06:43,455 I wouldn't say it's not a lot of effort. 169 00:06:43,555 --> 00:06:46,135 Like I said, I flew down, I flew down to Melbourne 170 00:06:46,235 --> 00:06:49,335 three weeks after final vows and we spent two days together 171 00:06:49,435 --> 00:06:52,055 and it was on the second day, the energy just felt really off. 172 00:06:52,155 --> 00:06:54,135 And that's when that conversation sort of happened. 173 00:06:54,235 --> 00:06:56,175 But I think it's the build up to what happened 174 00:06:56,275 --> 00:06:57,655 before we saw each other. 175 00:06:57,755 --> 00:06:59,975 I was begging you to come to Melbourne. 176 00:07:00,075 --> 00:07:02,135 I literally had to beg you. 177 00:07:02,235 --> 00:07:04,095 And then you rang me the next day 178 00:07:04,195 --> 00:07:06,255 and were like, I want to come. 179 00:07:06,355 --> 00:07:09,055 But my concerns are if we come and have a fight, 180 00:07:09,155 --> 00:07:10,695 I'm going to be really uncomfortable. 181 00:07:10,795 --> 00:07:12,335 And I was like, well, that's not fair 182 00:07:12,435 --> 00:07:16,175 because I went to your home with your family. 183 00:07:16,275 --> 00:07:17,375 That could have happened there too. 184 00:07:17,475 --> 00:07:19,455 I put myself in that position. 185 00:07:19,555 --> 00:07:22,695 But you'd already rang Danny and planned beers with him. 186 00:07:22,795 --> 00:07:25,575 You told Danny you were coming to Melbourne 187 00:07:25,675 --> 00:07:27,295 before you had even told me. 188 00:07:27,395 --> 00:07:29,596 You had essentially been caught out. 189 00:07:30,196 --> 00:07:32,776 And then it got flipped into your insecurities 190 00:07:32,876 --> 00:07:34,576 and how you're scared. 191 00:07:34,676 --> 00:07:37,576 And I'm there begging you on the phone to just, 192 00:07:37,676 --> 00:07:39,016 babe, please. 193 00:07:39,116 --> 00:07:42,316 The only way we can get through this is to come back together. 194 00:07:42,916 --> 00:07:47,776 And you could only give me less than 48 hours 195 00:07:47,876 --> 00:07:49,416 because of all your other commitments. 196 00:07:49,516 --> 00:07:51,516 It wasn't enough. 197 00:07:52,356 --> 00:07:55,016 So your relationship was confusing 198 00:07:55,116 --> 00:07:58,876 going into the reunion dinner party, even for you two, 199 00:07:59,596 --> 00:08:01,976 as demonstrated in this unseen footage. 200 00:08:02,076 --> 00:08:04,076 - Yeah. - I can't wait. 201 00:08:06,156 --> 00:08:07,976 Part of me doesn't even want to say hello to Rachel. 202 00:08:08,076 --> 00:08:10,616 But that wouldn't be very gentleman-like of me. 203 00:08:10,716 --> 00:08:12,096 And that's not in my nature. 204 00:08:12,196 --> 00:08:14,176 I'm sort of really upset it's gone to this 205 00:08:14,276 --> 00:08:17,636 sort of below the belt sort of moment. 206 00:08:18,996 --> 00:08:20,856 I've got a feeling that Rachel's going to be after me. 207 00:08:20,956 --> 00:08:23,376 I feel like her not contacting me, not messaging me 208 00:08:23,476 --> 00:08:25,016 is a bit out of character for her. 209 00:08:25,116 --> 00:08:27,236 I don't know if Bec has given her a plan. 210 00:08:28,156 --> 00:08:29,616 I just don't know what to think. 211 00:08:29,716 --> 00:08:31,816 I just actually want to see Steven. 212 00:08:31,916 --> 00:08:33,916 I can't help it, I miss him. 213 00:08:34,556 --> 00:08:37,376 You know, like, the feelings haven't gone away. 214 00:08:37,476 --> 00:08:39,416 You know, I have spent days 215 00:08:39,516 --> 00:08:41,176 and you're, like, have we done the right thing? 216 00:08:41,276 --> 00:08:42,616 Have we not tried hard enough? 217 00:08:42,716 --> 00:08:44,416 Like, is there, like, I don't know, 218 00:08:44,516 --> 00:08:46,696 but I just want to see him. 219 00:08:46,796 --> 00:08:48,796 I just want to make sure that he's OK. 220 00:08:49,516 --> 00:08:50,816 I'm not OK. 221 00:08:50,916 --> 00:08:52,456 I think you would know that I'm not OK. 222 00:08:52,556 --> 00:08:53,776 But I don't know how he is. 223 00:08:53,876 --> 00:08:55,876 And I just want to know. 224 00:08:57,316 --> 00:08:58,736 So the plan was that me and Rachel 225 00:08:58,836 --> 00:09:00,776 were going to walk in together, hand in hand. 226 00:09:00,876 --> 00:09:03,096 But you didn't. And, Steven, you were really angry about it. 227 00:09:03,196 --> 00:09:04,776 Why were you mad? 228 00:09:04,876 --> 00:09:07,496 Well, because this all sort of fell apart 229 00:09:07,596 --> 00:09:08,776 the night before. 230 00:09:08,876 --> 00:09:10,296 What happened the night before? 231 00:09:10,396 --> 00:09:13,616 So Steven and I had agreed the night before we were 232 00:09:13,716 --> 00:09:16,136 going to reunion that we spent the night together, 233 00:09:16,236 --> 00:09:18,216 and we had a conversation about where we were at. 234 00:09:18,316 --> 00:09:19,576 Things might have changed. 235 00:09:19,676 --> 00:09:21,296 You know, like maybe we could have been walking in 236 00:09:21,396 --> 00:09:23,217 together, hand in hand. 237 00:09:23,317 --> 00:09:24,897 And it happened again. 238 00:09:24,997 --> 00:09:29,137 Work became the priority and I hit my limit. 239 00:09:29,237 --> 00:09:32,217 I hit it and I was just, like, well, I'll go, 240 00:09:32,317 --> 00:09:33,537 we're going separately. 241 00:09:33,637 --> 00:09:36,457 Had you told production that you'd broken up? 242 00:09:36,557 --> 00:09:37,737 No? 243 00:09:37,837 --> 00:09:38,977 Rach! 244 00:09:39,077 --> 00:09:41,557 So if production asks you, did you just flat out lie to them? 245 00:09:42,917 --> 00:09:44,657 Yeah, we just were like... 246 00:09:44,757 --> 00:09:46,217 Yep. 247 00:09:46,317 --> 00:09:47,617 They don't need to know everything. 248 00:09:47,717 --> 00:09:49,097 Why? I'm so confused. 249 00:09:49,197 --> 00:09:51,497 No, no, no. Of course, we were going through a confusing 250 00:09:51,597 --> 00:09:53,657 time of like, we didn't know if we had made the right decision, 251 00:09:53,757 --> 00:09:54,937 if we saw each other. 252 00:09:55,037 --> 00:09:56,617 It was... It was a mess. 253 00:09:56,717 --> 00:09:58,057 Look, it probably wasn't the right decision, 254 00:09:58,157 --> 00:10:01,017 but the emotions were running so high with me and Rachel. 255 00:10:01,117 --> 00:10:03,177 Like when we decided we're not going to continue this. 256 00:10:03,277 --> 00:10:05,377 We cried for two hours, pretty much. 257 00:10:05,477 --> 00:10:07,977 When you put your ring back on, at that point in time, 258 00:10:08,077 --> 00:10:09,737 were you like, yes, I'm back in? 259 00:10:09,837 --> 00:10:12,137 Or were you like, actually, I'm putting this back on 260 00:10:12,237 --> 00:10:14,697 because we're now back into this agreement 261 00:10:14,797 --> 00:10:16,777 that we've had where we're in good territory with each other? 262 00:10:16,877 --> 00:10:19,417 - Pretty much. So I think... - Pretty much which one? 263 00:10:19,517 --> 00:10:20,977 Pretty much with the we're back 264 00:10:21,077 --> 00:10:22,177 in this agreement. 265 00:10:22,277 --> 00:10:24,817 Back in the agreement, not back in a relationship together. 266 00:10:24,917 --> 00:10:26,017 Confusing, I know. 267 00:10:26,117 --> 00:10:27,217 Very confusing. 268 00:10:27,317 --> 00:10:29,057 And Rachel, your reaction was visceral just then. 269 00:10:29,157 --> 00:10:32,257 Like, is that news to you then? 270 00:10:32,357 --> 00:10:34,497 Because as, as a viewer, it seemed like 271 00:10:34,597 --> 00:10:36,217 putting the ring back on is a statement of 272 00:10:36,317 --> 00:10:38,137 we are back in this relationship together. 273 00:10:38,237 --> 00:10:39,777 Putting the ring back on for me, 274 00:10:39,877 --> 00:10:42,897 I knew that we weren't back together because we weren't. 275 00:10:42,997 --> 00:10:46,537 But I saw it as more of, like, a reach out, 276 00:10:46,637 --> 00:10:48,377 a hope, a hopeful moment. 277 00:10:48,477 --> 00:10:52,297 So to hear that, it's like I put it back in because we're back in 278 00:10:52,397 --> 00:10:54,257 this agreement to do this thing, 279 00:10:54,357 --> 00:10:56,617 I'm just kind of like, that's not fair. 280 00:10:56,717 --> 00:10:58,657 You see that, like, putting the ring on is a pretty big 281 00:10:58,757 --> 00:11:00,857 statement of, even if you're not saying we're back together, 282 00:11:00,957 --> 00:11:02,617 it's like, I have enough feelings for you that 283 00:11:02,717 --> 00:11:04,937 we're going to get out of here and we're going to work on it. 284 00:11:05,037 --> 00:11:08,017 At the time, I thought a little, you know, 285 00:11:08,117 --> 00:11:09,977 there's thoughts in my, little voices in my head going, 286 00:11:10,077 --> 00:11:11,897 just maybe it may work out. 287 00:11:11,997 --> 00:11:14,498 So I put the ring back on, thinking there's probably 288 00:11:14,598 --> 00:11:16,778 some still sort of hope here for this. 289 00:11:16,878 --> 00:11:20,198 What point did you realise for you there was no hope? 290 00:11:20,918 --> 00:11:23,018 I seriously thought after the commitment ceremony 291 00:11:23,118 --> 00:11:25,738 and me saying those ridiculous words, I thought 292 00:11:25,838 --> 00:11:29,498 just me saying that alone was enough to fuck it all up. 293 00:11:29,598 --> 00:11:31,538 - And it was, evidently. - I think it was. 294 00:11:31,638 --> 00:11:33,738 What would you do differently? 295 00:11:33,838 --> 00:11:35,698 I would... 296 00:11:35,798 --> 00:11:38,618 Realistically, my communication skills after final vows, 297 00:11:38,718 --> 00:11:40,058 that was quite shit. 298 00:11:40,158 --> 00:11:42,698 Um, watching it all back, it's the just keep it 299 00:11:42,798 --> 00:11:44,058 a bit more of a priority. 300 00:11:44,158 --> 00:11:47,018 Don't just go back into my life and go, that's my comfort zone. 301 00:11:47,118 --> 00:11:48,778 You've got to make that a priority. 302 00:11:48,878 --> 00:11:50,178 With everything that has happened, 303 00:11:50,278 --> 00:11:52,578 everything that's gone on, if you're honest with yourself, 304 00:11:52,678 --> 00:11:55,538 do you believe that when Steven stood there at final vows 305 00:11:55,638 --> 00:11:57,578 and made a promise to you and a commitment to you 306 00:11:57,678 --> 00:12:00,958 that he actually intended on following through with that? 307 00:12:06,038 --> 00:12:08,038 A part of me feels like 308 00:12:11,278 --> 00:12:13,278 Steven didn't want to hurt me, 309 00:12:14,638 --> 00:12:16,638 so he did what he thought was right. 310 00:12:17,038 --> 00:12:20,138 Because I think deep, deep down, 311 00:12:20,238 --> 00:12:22,758 he didn't actually want to be with me. 312 00:12:23,638 --> 00:12:25,638 He didn't want to hurt me. 313 00:12:26,878 --> 00:12:28,378 - And then you ended... - I never do. 314 00:12:28,478 --> 00:12:30,998 And then you ended up destroying me. 315 00:12:33,038 --> 00:12:35,038 So... 316 00:12:36,078 --> 00:12:37,618 That tears me apart. 317 00:12:37,718 --> 00:12:39,718 How close to the pin is she? 318 00:12:40,918 --> 00:12:42,138 Final vows, 319 00:12:42,238 --> 00:12:44,458 I wasn't 100% convinced. And... 320 00:12:44,558 --> 00:12:46,618 What percent do you think? 321 00:12:48,078 --> 00:12:51,858 Out of five, I was about three and a half, around, 322 00:12:51,958 --> 00:12:54,938 out of five, four, out of five thinking, yeah, this, 323 00:12:55,038 --> 00:12:57,338 let's see this into the real world. 324 00:12:57,438 --> 00:13:00,278 It's a really sad story for both of you. 325 00:13:00,998 --> 00:13:02,658 It is a sad story. 326 00:13:02,758 --> 00:13:04,098 I've grown from it. 327 00:13:04,198 --> 00:13:06,419 And like I said, a lot of positive has come from it, 328 00:13:06,519 --> 00:13:09,779 but I feel like I've fucked up at the end big time. 329 00:13:09,879 --> 00:13:11,879 Can this work? 330 00:13:13,199 --> 00:13:15,259 If we had another shot, possibly. Yeah. If we... 331 00:13:15,359 --> 00:13:16,579 Who would you be? 332 00:13:16,679 --> 00:13:19,899 Be a man. I would step up and put Rachel first. 333 00:13:19,999 --> 00:13:21,219 I'm so sorry. 334 00:13:21,319 --> 00:13:23,179 There is no part of me that will go back to 335 00:13:23,279 --> 00:13:24,899 a relationship with Steven. 336 00:13:24,999 --> 00:13:29,379 Um, because words and actions didn't align 337 00:13:29,479 --> 00:13:31,299 and done this before. 338 00:13:31,399 --> 00:13:33,459 I've had the... 339 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:36,139 a part of me wants to be with you, but we live long distance. 340 00:13:36,239 --> 00:13:38,779 I want someone who wholeheartedly wants me. 341 00:13:38,879 --> 00:13:40,659 So I can't go back to that. 342 00:13:40,759 --> 00:13:46,399 And so while I'll always, always have love for you in my heart. 343 00:13:46,999 --> 00:13:50,879 You have a very special, very special place in my heart. 344 00:13:52,319 --> 00:13:54,319 I would never go back. I'm sorry. 345 00:13:55,319 --> 00:13:56,779 I hope that you take from this, 346 00:13:56,879 --> 00:13:58,459 you know, you put yourself out there. 347 00:13:58,559 --> 00:13:59,899 You did it again. 348 00:13:59,999 --> 00:14:03,139 And you should be so proud of yourself. Genuinely. 349 00:14:03,239 --> 00:14:04,419 I know we've already said it, like... 350 00:14:04,519 --> 00:14:06,899 And also, the two of you have been a joy to watch. 351 00:14:06,999 --> 00:14:09,219 Your relationship was an absolute joy. 352 00:14:09,319 --> 00:14:11,459 Thank you for coming and for being vulnerable. 353 00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:14,219 And like I said, we have been all so invested 354 00:14:14,319 --> 00:14:15,539 in the both of you, 355 00:14:15,639 --> 00:14:17,859 and we can see that this is something that is still very raw 356 00:14:17,959 --> 00:14:19,659 and very fresh for the two of you, 357 00:14:19,759 --> 00:14:21,979 and it's going to take time to get over this, 358 00:14:22,079 --> 00:14:24,779 but we wish you the best of luck in your next relationships. 359 00:14:24,879 --> 00:14:26,379 Thank you all so much. 360 00:14:26,479 --> 00:14:27,979 Now, look, we did have Danny 361 00:14:28,079 --> 00:14:29,579 who was supposed to be coming today. 362 00:14:29,679 --> 00:14:32,379 However, surprise, surprise, he was a no show at the reunion 363 00:14:32,479 --> 00:14:34,779 and he is a no show for his flight this morning. 364 00:14:34,879 --> 00:14:36,819 And he also stopped answering our calls. 365 00:14:36,919 --> 00:14:38,619 Funny that he had such an issue with Gia 366 00:14:38,719 --> 00:14:39,899 not facing the music, 367 00:14:39,999 --> 00:14:42,139 yet the second that he has copped a little bit of heat, 368 00:14:42,239 --> 00:14:43,859 he's also nowhere to be seen. 369 00:14:43,959 --> 00:14:45,859 However, Bec is here, and I know that she's got 370 00:14:45,959 --> 00:14:47,959 a lot to get off her chest, so let's bring her on out. 371 00:14:55,039 --> 00:14:57,039 - Oh, my god. Stop. - Hi. 372 00:14:57,959 --> 00:14:59,960 Hello, baby. 373 00:15:00,920 --> 00:15:02,660 What the hell? How are you? 374 00:15:02,760 --> 00:15:04,760 Oh, Bec. 375 00:15:05,200 --> 00:15:07,180 How are you? 376 00:15:07,280 --> 00:15:09,900 You all look so hot. You make me feel inferior. 377 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:12,420 - Take a seat. - Danny didn't come. 378 00:15:12,520 --> 00:15:13,660 Does that surprise you at all? 379 00:15:13,760 --> 00:15:17,540 No. I woke up to a essay of, um, a message 380 00:15:17,640 --> 00:15:18,860 from him this morning. 381 00:15:18,960 --> 00:15:21,500 Um, it's my fault that, um, 382 00:15:21,600 --> 00:15:24,460 the country doesn't like him at the moment. 383 00:15:24,560 --> 00:15:26,540 So you guys have been in contact then recently 384 00:15:26,640 --> 00:15:27,940 for you to still be messaging? 385 00:15:28,040 --> 00:15:33,060 Yeah. So, we had a bit of communication 386 00:15:33,160 --> 00:15:34,620 like here and there. 387 00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:37,580 Yesterday I messaged him and said, are you OK? 388 00:15:37,680 --> 00:15:39,540 I know that there's a lot of press that's come out. 389 00:15:39,640 --> 00:15:41,980 And I did say to him, I was going to be honest 390 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:43,180 about my experience. 391 00:15:43,280 --> 00:15:45,940 Bec, why do you think he's maintained, I guess, 392 00:15:46,040 --> 00:15:49,300 a friendly relationship with you up until last night's messages? 393 00:15:49,400 --> 00:15:53,540 He was wanting to keep his, you know, us sweet a little bit 394 00:15:53,640 --> 00:15:56,340 because he wanted me to speak highly of him in press. 395 00:15:56,440 --> 00:15:58,580 And the moment he saw a couple of articles 396 00:15:58,680 --> 00:16:00,860 come out yesterday, 397 00:16:00,960 --> 00:16:02,780 he launched. 398 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:04,300 It was pretty intense. 399 00:16:04,400 --> 00:16:06,400 I still thought he'd show. I don't know why, like... 400 00:16:06,960 --> 00:16:10,140 It's the commitment ceremony all over again 401 00:16:10,240 --> 00:16:11,980 when I was like, Danny, you need to come, 402 00:16:12,080 --> 00:16:14,860 you need to come and like sit with Bec and like, 403 00:16:14,960 --> 00:16:16,140 talk about your experience. 404 00:16:16,240 --> 00:16:17,860 I thought he would come back. 405 00:16:17,960 --> 00:16:23,100 Bec, this whole MAFS journey for you has been a rough ride, 406 00:16:23,200 --> 00:16:26,780 some horrific behaviour, but we are starting to 407 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:30,280 better understand where a lot of that tension was coming from. 408 00:16:30,760 --> 00:16:32,860 And this moment from tonight's episode 409 00:16:32,960 --> 00:16:34,960 is actually quite telling. 410 00:16:36,440 --> 00:16:38,440 Alright, Danny. 411 00:16:41,400 --> 00:16:45,060 The future without Bec is, would be bright. 412 00:16:45,160 --> 00:16:47,160 - Oh! - What the fuck? 413 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:48,780 You know what I mean? 414 00:16:48,880 --> 00:16:51,221 After this, gonna be women queuing up for me. 415 00:16:51,321 --> 00:16:52,621 Holy shit. 416 00:16:52,721 --> 00:16:54,461 Won't be able to walk down the street. 417 00:16:54,561 --> 00:16:56,381 They'll be throwing their pantyhose at me. 418 00:16:56,481 --> 00:16:59,801 So either way, it's gonna be alright. 419 00:17:01,361 --> 00:17:03,841 Fucking hell. 420 00:17:07,321 --> 00:17:08,541 No. 421 00:17:08,641 --> 00:17:10,301 Deserve so much better than that, babe. 422 00:17:10,401 --> 00:17:12,141 I know. I love you. 423 00:17:12,241 --> 00:17:14,241 That's a wrap. 424 00:17:14,721 --> 00:17:16,721 Are we going to the pub now? 425 00:17:20,641 --> 00:17:24,141 Oh, it's so difficult to watch that. 426 00:17:24,241 --> 00:17:31,061 So difficult because he had told me five days before final vows, 427 00:17:31,161 --> 00:17:32,381 I'm falling in love with you. 428 00:17:32,481 --> 00:17:34,461 We're 100% leaving together. 429 00:17:34,561 --> 00:17:35,981 We're the strongest couple. 430 00:17:36,081 --> 00:17:38,301 And I'm like, stronger together, rah-rah-rah. 431 00:17:38,401 --> 00:17:40,941 But they were the conversations I was having with him. 432 00:17:41,041 --> 00:17:43,221 It seems like a lot of these conversations were happening 433 00:17:43,321 --> 00:17:46,181 off-camera, like, there was a lot of affirmation 434 00:17:46,281 --> 00:17:47,461 that you were getting, 435 00:17:47,561 --> 00:17:49,421 but we weren't seeing it as an audience. 436 00:17:49,521 --> 00:17:51,981 Yeah. When it was just Danny and I, 437 00:17:52,081 --> 00:17:54,501 the conversations were beautiful. 438 00:17:54,601 --> 00:17:56,341 You know, we're so strong. 439 00:17:56,441 --> 00:17:58,421 You know, I wouldn't be here if I didn't have 440 00:17:58,521 --> 00:18:00,221 these really strong feelings for you. 441 00:18:00,321 --> 00:18:01,821 You know, I'm not good with words. 442 00:18:01,921 --> 00:18:05,941 So when I don't affirm you in front of the cameras, 443 00:18:06,041 --> 00:18:07,701 it's because I'm not good with words. 444 00:18:07,801 --> 00:18:09,861 I look like an idiot now, right? 445 00:18:09,961 --> 00:18:14,021 I look like a fool because in front of the cameras, he wasn't. 446 00:18:14,121 --> 00:18:17,381 But I was believing what he was saying and not his actions. 447 00:18:17,481 --> 00:18:20,261 It must be very confusing watching all of this back. 448 00:18:20,361 --> 00:18:21,861 It blows my mind, Jules. 449 00:18:21,961 --> 00:18:25,541 It blows my mind because he told me that he'd been 450 00:18:25,641 --> 00:18:28,081 telling the cameras he was falling in love with me. 451 00:18:29,601 --> 00:18:31,101 Well, look, speaking of confusing, 452 00:18:31,201 --> 00:18:32,381 at the final dinner party, 453 00:18:32,481 --> 00:18:34,021 there was all the discussion around whether or not 454 00:18:34,121 --> 00:18:36,301 Danny actually said that he was falling in love with you. 455 00:18:36,401 --> 00:18:39,821 You said that he had said it, and he kind of downplayed it. 456 00:18:39,921 --> 00:18:43,302 We do have an extended scene from the reunion dinner party, 457 00:18:43,402 --> 00:18:45,182 which will give us all a little bit more clarity on 458 00:18:45,282 --> 00:18:47,382 that exact matter. 459 00:18:47,482 --> 00:18:49,102 You said you were falling in love with me. 460 00:18:49,202 --> 00:18:50,302 Don't lie. I said... 461 00:18:50,402 --> 00:18:51,622 You were falling in love with me. 462 00:18:51,722 --> 00:18:53,102 I said I had strong feelings for you. 463 00:18:53,202 --> 00:18:54,742 You said you were falling in love with me. 464 00:18:54,842 --> 00:18:56,022 Bec, Bec. 465 00:18:56,122 --> 00:18:57,422 Daniel, do not sit here... 466 00:18:57,522 --> 00:19:00,022 Bec. Yeah, I said that. Yeah, I said that. 467 00:19:00,122 --> 00:19:01,542 I didn't say I'm in love with you. 468 00:19:01,642 --> 00:19:05,622 Daniel. I believed you when you told me you were 469 00:19:05,722 --> 00:19:07,022 falling in love with me. 470 00:19:07,122 --> 00:19:10,062 I believed you when you told me categorically, 471 00:19:10,162 --> 00:19:11,582 Bec, we are leaving together. 472 00:19:11,682 --> 00:19:13,222 I trusted you. 473 00:19:13,322 --> 00:19:14,462 I walked down the path... 474 00:19:14,562 --> 00:19:16,782 - Bec. I never... - You did on that Saturday. 475 00:19:16,882 --> 00:19:18,182 Bec. Can I talk? Fuck me. 476 00:19:18,282 --> 00:19:19,542 Otherwise, I'm just going to walk away. 477 00:19:19,642 --> 00:19:21,862 Because there's no point in this if we can't just 478 00:19:21,962 --> 00:19:23,142 have a conversation. 479 00:19:23,242 --> 00:19:24,782 I said I was falling in love with you. 480 00:19:24,882 --> 00:19:26,502 I was falling in love with you. 481 00:19:26,602 --> 00:19:28,542 Sometimes love isn't enough. 482 00:19:28,642 --> 00:19:30,782 And by that, I mean, right? 483 00:19:30,882 --> 00:19:33,062 There was problems with our relationship. 484 00:19:33,162 --> 00:19:35,742 For the record, everything I said was true. 485 00:19:35,842 --> 00:19:38,302 - You should have told me. - I didn't want you... 486 00:19:38,402 --> 00:19:40,022 You should have you told me... 487 00:19:40,122 --> 00:19:42,822 You should have told me beforehand 488 00:19:42,922 --> 00:19:44,022 that you had reservations. 489 00:19:44,122 --> 00:19:47,262 But instead, on the Tuesday when we were packing, you said, 490 00:19:47,362 --> 00:19:48,902 babe, don't divide everything. 491 00:19:49,002 --> 00:19:50,782 - How many times... - Excuse me. 492 00:19:50,882 --> 00:19:52,102 Don't divide everything. 493 00:19:52,202 --> 00:19:53,742 We're moving into the same house. 494 00:19:53,842 --> 00:19:58,542 What you did was let me walk down a path to you 495 00:19:58,642 --> 00:20:02,662 in a wedding dress, knowing you knew that I was 496 00:20:02,762 --> 00:20:04,782 of the understanding that you were falling in love with me 497 00:20:04,882 --> 00:20:07,622 and we were leaving together to see how it would go. 498 00:20:07,722 --> 00:20:10,802 And instead, you dumped me. 499 00:20:11,442 --> 00:20:15,002 Boom. The puzzle pieces are coming together. And look... 500 00:20:15,802 --> 00:20:18,542 I mean, he definitely told you and admitted there 501 00:20:18,642 --> 00:20:20,462 that he was falling in love with you. 502 00:20:20,562 --> 00:20:22,182 So you're not completely crazy. 503 00:20:22,282 --> 00:20:23,982 - Thank you, thank you. - Completely. 504 00:20:24,082 --> 00:20:26,082 Completely. 505 00:20:27,162 --> 00:20:29,822 There's still a little bit of crazy in there, Bec. 506 00:20:29,922 --> 00:20:31,342 I mean, like we literally just saw it. 507 00:20:31,442 --> 00:20:32,782 He said he's falling in love with you. 508 00:20:32,882 --> 00:20:35,623 And then two days later we see him saying, 509 00:20:35,723 --> 00:20:36,943 thank god she's out of my life. 510 00:20:37,043 --> 00:20:38,143 It's wild. 511 00:20:38,243 --> 00:20:41,443 We showed footage last week of him telling you, Steven, 512 00:20:41,923 --> 00:20:43,143 that he did not say that. 513 00:20:43,243 --> 00:20:47,143 So there's two parallel narratives. 514 00:20:47,243 --> 00:20:48,383 Do you see that? 515 00:20:48,483 --> 00:20:50,023 I can see, yeah, I can see it. 516 00:20:50,123 --> 00:20:51,823 And at the time when, you know, he's your mate, 517 00:20:51,923 --> 00:20:54,063 I believe every word that Danny says to me. 518 00:20:54,163 --> 00:20:57,843 Seriously, he's probably had me fooled as well that I 519 00:20:58,403 --> 00:21:01,143 believed him when he was trying to work on his relationship. 520 00:21:01,243 --> 00:21:02,983 Just to validate you for a second, Bec, 521 00:21:03,083 --> 00:21:05,023 he pulled the wool over all of our eyes 522 00:21:05,123 --> 00:21:06,263 to hear him say that. 523 00:21:06,363 --> 00:21:08,823 He gaslit you in that one conversation, then undid it, 524 00:21:08,923 --> 00:21:10,223 admitted himself that he said it... 525 00:21:10,323 --> 00:21:11,463 And then re-gaslit me again. 526 00:21:11,563 --> 00:21:14,223 Yeah, but you must feel so validated 527 00:21:14,323 --> 00:21:15,863 that Australia has seen that now? 528 00:21:15,963 --> 00:21:18,983 I do and look, like, I do feel validated 529 00:21:19,083 --> 00:21:21,063 that that's come out, because I knew that that conversation 530 00:21:21,163 --> 00:21:22,743 had happened at that dinner party. 531 00:21:22,843 --> 00:21:24,543 - What do you think was his M.O? - Fame. 532 00:21:24,643 --> 00:21:26,103 Like, when you said, you know... 533 00:21:26,203 --> 00:21:28,423 Fame. He knew that I was controversial. 534 00:21:28,523 --> 00:21:29,783 I put my foot in my mouth. 535 00:21:29,883 --> 00:21:33,643 I think that he knew being with me would get him airtime 536 00:21:34,163 --> 00:21:35,903 and he wanted to long it out. 537 00:21:36,003 --> 00:21:39,703 I think at the start he wanted to be into you, 538 00:21:39,803 --> 00:21:41,623 but your behaviour turned him off 539 00:21:41,723 --> 00:21:43,063 and he stopped playing for love. 540 00:21:43,163 --> 00:21:46,623 He started to play for himself and the worse you looked, 541 00:21:46,723 --> 00:21:48,703 the better he would look, right? 542 00:21:48,803 --> 00:21:50,903 You sensed all of that. 543 00:21:51,003 --> 00:21:53,023 And rather than take it out on him 544 00:21:53,123 --> 00:21:54,783 because he's a black belt in bullshit, 545 00:21:54,883 --> 00:21:56,783 you exploded on everyone else. 546 00:21:56,883 --> 00:22:00,303 Meanwhile, he got exhausted and he did not have the energy 547 00:22:00,403 --> 00:22:03,143 to hold the mask up for anyone but the one person 548 00:22:03,243 --> 00:22:06,703 who could take him to the final vowels, which was you. 549 00:22:06,803 --> 00:22:08,463 I've achieved my goal. 550 00:22:08,563 --> 00:22:11,183 All the while, it has cost you. 551 00:22:11,283 --> 00:22:13,463 Mm-hm. It's cost me everything. 552 00:22:13,563 --> 00:22:15,463 Well, look, things really started to fall apart 553 00:22:15,563 --> 00:22:18,383 for the both of you during the final test week. 554 00:22:18,483 --> 00:22:21,063 You had a pretty big argument after Danny watched the video. 555 00:22:21,163 --> 00:22:22,823 Now, Bec, what we're about to show you is 556 00:22:22,923 --> 00:22:24,703 going to be incredibly hard for you to watch. 557 00:22:24,803 --> 00:22:25,903 OK. 558 00:22:26,003 --> 00:22:27,623 Telling me that's the best you could bring me? 559 00:22:27,723 --> 00:22:29,724 You want to be ashamed of yourself, MAFS do. 560 00:22:31,164 --> 00:22:32,864 I can fucking walk in Coles and get 561 00:22:32,964 --> 00:22:34,784 a better bird than that. Fuck me. 562 00:22:34,884 --> 00:22:36,544 I gave up my life to be here. 563 00:22:36,644 --> 00:22:38,824 I've got a fucking cushy little life. 564 00:22:38,924 --> 00:22:40,584 I gave up my life to be here. 565 00:22:40,684 --> 00:22:42,704 And I could roll in Coles right now, 566 00:22:42,804 --> 00:22:44,264 walk up to, oh, there's a bird in there, 567 00:22:44,364 --> 00:22:45,624 she'd be better than Bec. 568 00:22:45,724 --> 00:22:47,804 Can't be no worse. It's impossible. 569 00:22:48,444 --> 00:22:49,784 Fuck me. 570 00:22:49,884 --> 00:22:51,104 Shit. 571 00:22:51,204 --> 00:22:52,944 So shit. 572 00:22:53,044 --> 00:22:54,584 Are the execs watching this? 573 00:22:54,684 --> 00:22:57,184 You're fucking shit at your jobs. 574 00:22:57,284 --> 00:22:58,664 Bring me better women. 575 00:22:58,764 --> 00:23:00,884 You can do that if you're about a 15 out of ten 576 00:23:02,684 --> 00:23:04,684 and she's not. 577 00:23:06,004 --> 00:23:08,004 Fucking annoying. 578 00:23:12,564 --> 00:23:14,184 Yep. 579 00:23:14,284 --> 00:23:15,584 Sorry. I don't want to cry. 580 00:23:15,684 --> 00:23:17,684 - I'm here. - Sorry. 581 00:23:19,004 --> 00:23:21,784 What we just watched was disgusting, and we all, 582 00:23:21,884 --> 00:23:25,224 when we saw that footage, were horrified, 583 00:23:25,324 --> 00:23:26,704 like, actually horrified. 584 00:23:26,804 --> 00:23:28,144 All of it was revolting. 585 00:23:28,244 --> 00:23:29,624 - All of it. - All of it. 586 00:23:29,724 --> 00:23:31,724 Who do you think you are? Who do you think you are? 587 00:23:32,204 --> 00:23:34,544 This is why I say he's come on for fame, guys. 588 00:23:34,644 --> 00:23:35,744 I'm sorry. 589 00:23:35,844 --> 00:23:39,104 Because if that's how you feel about me, why did you sit there 590 00:23:39,204 --> 00:23:40,304 for three months straight? 591 00:23:40,404 --> 00:23:42,464 So he told you he was falling in love with you after this? 592 00:23:42,564 --> 00:23:44,544 - That afternoon. - I'm falling in love with you. 593 00:23:44,644 --> 00:23:46,544 As soon as those cameras left, that's when he told me 594 00:23:46,644 --> 00:23:47,864 he was falling in love with me. 595 00:23:47,964 --> 00:23:49,624 He said to me, I'm falling in love with you. 596 00:23:49,724 --> 00:23:52,264 I've been telling the cameras this for a week now. 597 00:23:52,364 --> 00:23:54,104 I'm saving those words for final vows. 598 00:23:54,204 --> 00:23:55,864 Rach, what was your reaction to that? 599 00:23:55,964 --> 00:23:57,144 I'm disgusted. 600 00:23:57,244 --> 00:23:59,184 If I knew Danny was that way, 601 00:23:59,284 --> 00:24:00,464 I wouldn't be mates with him. 602 00:24:00,564 --> 00:24:02,584 - No way. - I would not be mates with him. 603 00:24:02,684 --> 00:24:03,784 Stevo? 604 00:24:03,884 --> 00:24:05,504 Yeah, it's a bit... 605 00:24:05,604 --> 00:24:06,864 Can't protect him now, Stevo, after that. 606 00:24:06,964 --> 00:24:08,704 No, it's pretty disappointing. 607 00:24:08,804 --> 00:24:10,664 There's nothing gentlemen about that at all. 608 00:24:10,764 --> 00:24:13,104 I never saw any... I didn't see any of that. 609 00:24:13,204 --> 00:24:14,384 Well, none of us did. 610 00:24:14,484 --> 00:24:16,064 - None of us. - That's the real Danny. 611 00:24:16,164 --> 00:24:18,344 Do you watch that video and think 612 00:24:18,444 --> 00:24:20,465 that's just Danny's bravado? 613 00:24:20,565 --> 00:24:23,585 Like, because he does have this, like, larrikin, 614 00:24:23,685 --> 00:24:25,785 makes a joke of everything, says things off the cuff. 615 00:24:25,885 --> 00:24:29,905 Do you think that that is him trying to, like, put on a thing? 616 00:24:30,005 --> 00:24:32,345 That's the other side of Danny that Australia hasn't seen. 617 00:24:32,445 --> 00:24:34,665 Do you think he felt untouchable? 618 00:24:34,765 --> 00:24:38,145 Absolutely. I think he thought Australia would love him because 619 00:24:38,245 --> 00:24:39,985 he's the funny guy and that 620 00:24:40,085 --> 00:24:42,225 that sort of stuff would never be used 621 00:24:42,325 --> 00:24:46,585 and that I was the nutcase and Australia would praise him 622 00:24:46,685 --> 00:24:48,265 for finally leaving me. 623 00:24:48,365 --> 00:24:49,825 Obviously some of your behaviour throughout 624 00:24:49,925 --> 00:24:51,745 this experiment has been horrible, 625 00:24:51,845 --> 00:24:53,665 but there is something to be said 626 00:24:53,765 --> 00:24:55,625 that when someone is feeding you one thing, 627 00:24:55,725 --> 00:24:58,345 but they're not telling the truth in another instance, 628 00:24:58,445 --> 00:25:01,145 it makes you a crazy version of yourself. 629 00:25:01,245 --> 00:25:05,145 It made me wild because when we were by ourselves, 630 00:25:05,245 --> 00:25:06,705 we never argued. 631 00:25:06,805 --> 00:25:08,185 Everything was hunky dory 632 00:25:08,285 --> 00:25:10,145 and then the cameras would come up 633 00:25:10,245 --> 00:25:13,425 and it was like a completely different story. 634 00:25:13,525 --> 00:25:15,745 It's like that dinner party where I wore the red dress. 635 00:25:15,845 --> 00:25:17,465 He was like, babe, I so understand. 636 00:25:17,565 --> 00:25:18,905 Like, you wrote these text messages. 637 00:25:19,005 --> 00:25:20,225 They were so long ago. 638 00:25:20,325 --> 00:25:23,025 I wish everyone would just leave it alone now you've apologised. 639 00:25:23,125 --> 00:25:25,585 And then we sat there and he's like, 640 00:25:25,685 --> 00:25:27,065 I don't give a fuck about how many... 641 00:25:27,165 --> 00:25:29,945 Now I understand that what I wrote, abhorrent, 642 00:25:30,045 --> 00:25:31,785 my behaviour, abhorrent, me, abhorrent. 643 00:25:31,885 --> 00:25:35,945 But every single dinner party, he validated me. 644 00:25:36,045 --> 00:25:38,665 Then I'd sit there and he'd go, rah! 645 00:25:38,765 --> 00:25:41,185 And I'd be like, well, what the fuck is going on? 646 00:25:41,285 --> 00:25:43,145 I'm never going to blame anyone. 647 00:25:43,245 --> 00:25:45,705 Never an edit, never another person for my behaviour. 648 00:25:45,805 --> 00:25:47,025 I make choices. 649 00:25:47,125 --> 00:25:48,785 They're fucking shit choices. 650 00:25:48,885 --> 00:25:49,985 But I made them. 651 00:25:50,085 --> 00:25:53,265 But he made me fucking nuts, guys. He made me nuts. 652 00:25:53,365 --> 00:25:56,185 Looking back now, do you think it was all a lie? 653 00:25:56,285 --> 00:25:58,285 Yep. The whole thing was a lie. 654 00:25:59,245 --> 00:26:01,425 - I feel like an idiot. - No no no no no. 655 00:26:01,525 --> 00:26:03,105 What makes this even worse, Bec, 656 00:26:03,205 --> 00:26:05,705 and I'm really sorry, but after we saw him say 657 00:26:05,805 --> 00:26:07,145 those vile comments, 658 00:26:07,245 --> 00:26:10,905 you recorded this video diary yourself 24 hours later. 659 00:26:11,005 --> 00:26:13,426 - I'm here. - I just feel like a fool. 660 00:26:13,526 --> 00:26:15,526 Yesterday you would have seen 661 00:26:16,246 --> 00:26:19,446 Daniel and I have quite an argument, to be honest with you. 662 00:26:19,966 --> 00:26:22,106 Um, after watching the videos 663 00:26:22,206 --> 00:26:27,266 of us going to the alternative match lunches, 664 00:26:27,366 --> 00:26:28,906 we came home. 665 00:26:29,006 --> 00:26:31,726 We sat down, we talked. 666 00:26:32,486 --> 00:26:34,486 He told me he's falling in love with me. 667 00:26:35,406 --> 00:26:41,426 I love him. Um, and we just... it's been months, you know, 668 00:26:41,526 --> 00:26:43,706 and we're tired. 669 00:26:43,806 --> 00:26:46,386 But yeah, I came home 670 00:26:46,486 --> 00:26:48,826 after seeing my cousin for a little while, 671 00:26:48,926 --> 00:26:52,006 and I'll show you what he did for me. 672 00:26:55,086 --> 00:26:57,466 I'm happy we're good again, with photos of us. 673 00:26:57,566 --> 00:26:59,066 It's really cute. 674 00:26:59,166 --> 00:27:00,826 Um, so we're OK. 675 00:27:00,926 --> 00:27:02,026 We're great. 676 00:27:02,126 --> 00:27:04,386 Like, we just can't wait to go and live 677 00:27:04,486 --> 00:27:05,786 in the real world together. 678 00:27:05,886 --> 00:27:08,306 And you know, 679 00:27:08,406 --> 00:27:10,406 none of this other stuff going on. 680 00:27:11,406 --> 00:27:13,786 You know, it's funny because he's calling me 681 00:27:13,886 --> 00:27:17,886 a liar and a manipulator, but that's manipulation. 682 00:27:18,886 --> 00:27:22,706 It is no wonder you walked into those final vows believing 683 00:27:22,806 --> 00:27:24,866 that the two of you were going to be together, 684 00:27:24,966 --> 00:27:27,866 and it is no wonder that you thought 685 00:27:27,966 --> 00:27:29,466 he was falling in love with you. 686 00:27:29,566 --> 00:27:32,226 Yeah. I get it. My behaviour disgusting. 687 00:27:32,326 --> 00:27:34,786 Do I need to work on myself? Absolutely. 688 00:27:34,886 --> 00:27:36,146 Am I? Yes. 689 00:27:36,246 --> 00:27:38,326 But I don't deserve this. 690 00:27:38,926 --> 00:27:40,826 I don't deserve this. 691 00:27:40,926 --> 00:27:42,866 I don't. 692 00:27:42,966 --> 00:27:44,966 - You really don't, Bec. - Sorry. 693 00:27:45,526 --> 00:27:47,466 - No, no. No-one deserves it. - I'm so embarrassed. 694 00:27:47,566 --> 00:27:49,826 You don't have to be embarrassed because someone 695 00:27:49,926 --> 00:27:52,546 made you believe that they were falling in love with you. 696 00:27:52,646 --> 00:27:54,586 That's not your embarrassment to carry. 697 00:27:54,686 --> 00:27:56,066 That was done intentionally. 698 00:27:56,166 --> 00:27:57,546 And I'm sorry that you're sitting here 699 00:27:57,646 --> 00:27:59,186 and you're feeling like that. 700 00:27:59,286 --> 00:28:00,386 Yeah. 701 00:28:00,486 --> 00:28:01,666 You OK? 702 00:28:01,766 --> 00:28:03,466 Yeah. 703 00:28:03,566 --> 00:28:05,567 It's just really harsh, man. 704 00:28:07,927 --> 00:28:11,267 I'm gonna be OK. I deserve so much more. 705 00:28:11,367 --> 00:28:13,187 I just hope that he watches this and realises 706 00:28:13,287 --> 00:28:15,467 that he's got work to do, too. 707 00:28:15,567 --> 00:28:17,587 Bec, look, I know this has been really intense, 708 00:28:17,687 --> 00:28:19,947 but there is something else we need to discuss. 709 00:28:20,047 --> 00:28:23,267 Messages that came to light between Danny and Steph. 710 00:28:23,367 --> 00:28:25,467 Bec, I know you're probably not going to like this, 711 00:28:25,567 --> 00:28:26,987 but Steph is here, 712 00:28:27,087 --> 00:28:29,087 so let's bring her out. 713 00:28:37,807 --> 00:28:38,907 Hello. 714 00:28:39,007 --> 00:28:40,827 - Oh, my back. - How are we? 715 00:28:40,927 --> 00:28:42,467 - Hi, honey. - Gorgeous girl, hello. 716 00:28:42,567 --> 00:28:43,867 Nice to see you. 717 00:28:43,967 --> 00:28:45,067 - Hi. - Hello. How are you? 718 00:28:45,167 --> 00:28:46,267 Mwah. 719 00:28:46,367 --> 00:28:48,107 - Hi, guys. - Take a seat, my love. 720 00:28:48,207 --> 00:28:50,347 - Nice to see you again. - Thanks for having me. 721 00:28:50,447 --> 00:28:51,747 - Steph, thanks for joining us. - Pleasure. 722 00:28:51,847 --> 00:28:53,427 Well, let's just cut straight to the chase. 723 00:28:53,527 --> 00:28:55,507 Why were you and Danny messaging each other? 724 00:28:55,607 --> 00:28:57,467 I saw that he was following me on Instagram, 725 00:28:57,567 --> 00:28:59,347 so I was just like, hey, man, how are you? 726 00:28:59,447 --> 00:29:01,187 Like, how's life post-experiment? 727 00:29:01,287 --> 00:29:04,347 Why did you feel like you had to share that with Bec? 728 00:29:04,447 --> 00:29:06,787 Well, I just because I didn't want to lie. 729 00:29:06,887 --> 00:29:10,347 I'd rather be up front and show Bec my phone. 730 00:29:10,447 --> 00:29:12,067 I gave her my phone and said, look, 731 00:29:12,167 --> 00:29:13,747 here's the whole conversation. 732 00:29:13,847 --> 00:29:15,267 You had enough time to delete a few. 733 00:29:15,367 --> 00:29:17,347 Not saying that they were saucy. 734 00:29:17,447 --> 00:29:19,427 And the phone call. You never told me about a phone call. 735 00:29:19,527 --> 00:29:20,907 The phone call was right at the end. 736 00:29:21,007 --> 00:29:22,387 OK. 737 00:29:22,487 --> 00:29:23,947 There were no deleted messages. 738 00:29:24,047 --> 00:29:25,707 We don't know what the content of those messages 739 00:29:25,807 --> 00:29:28,787 were at this point in time, what was the content? 740 00:29:28,887 --> 00:29:31,987 So there were, like, there were some photos exchanged, 741 00:29:32,087 --> 00:29:34,107 one of which I was wearing a bikini top 742 00:29:34,207 --> 00:29:35,547 because he was like, how was Hamilton Island? 743 00:29:35,647 --> 00:29:37,707 I've never been there. So I sent him some photos. 744 00:29:37,807 --> 00:29:39,547 Selfie of you in the office. 745 00:29:39,647 --> 00:29:42,107 Voice notes. She rang him. 746 00:29:42,207 --> 00:29:43,547 What were the voice notes? 747 00:29:43,647 --> 00:29:45,427 So there was a voice note in there as well, 748 00:29:45,527 --> 00:29:47,787 and I was like, oh my god, it's so good to hear your voice. 749 00:29:47,887 --> 00:29:49,307 Like, you know, how have you been? 750 00:29:49,407 --> 00:29:51,787 I don't, I haven't even gone back over to listen to them 751 00:29:51,887 --> 00:29:54,067 because it wasn't that deep. 752 00:29:54,167 --> 00:29:55,627 Well, Bec, why were you so angry? 753 00:29:55,727 --> 00:29:59,668 Like, what about this made you furious or so deeply hurt? 754 00:29:59,768 --> 00:30:01,148 I'm going to start off by saying 755 00:30:01,248 --> 00:30:02,788 the way I spoke to you wasn't OK. 756 00:30:02,888 --> 00:30:04,148 No, it wasn't it. 757 00:30:04,248 --> 00:30:08,248 The way you talking to Danny wasn't OK. 758 00:30:08,888 --> 00:30:12,148 As my friend, who knew that he had just broken my heart, 759 00:30:12,248 --> 00:30:14,988 and you'd been supporting me so graciously, 760 00:30:15,088 --> 00:30:17,748 why you felt the need to, A, lie to me 761 00:30:17,848 --> 00:30:19,348 and say he reached out to you first, 762 00:30:19,448 --> 00:30:22,308 but B, to even engage in that conversation. 763 00:30:22,408 --> 00:30:24,788 - He broke your friend's heart. - Yeah. 764 00:30:24,888 --> 00:30:26,668 And that's what upset me so much. 765 00:30:26,768 --> 00:30:29,868 Did it ever move from a sort of networking 766 00:30:29,968 --> 00:30:32,108 to a friendship, to flirt? 767 00:30:32,208 --> 00:30:33,428 I don't think so. 768 00:30:33,528 --> 00:30:35,548 Like, I was never attracted to Danny. 769 00:30:35,648 --> 00:30:37,348 Did Danny make it flirty? 770 00:30:37,448 --> 00:30:38,828 No. No. 771 00:30:38,928 --> 00:30:40,908 I never felt like he was trying to flirt with me. 772 00:30:41,008 --> 00:30:42,908 Did it feel like a friendship betrayal to you? 773 00:30:43,008 --> 00:30:44,188 Yeah, a lot. 774 00:30:44,288 --> 00:30:46,228 Because, like, I didn't get out of bed for six days. 775 00:30:46,328 --> 00:30:49,028 All I did was cry and stay in bed. 776 00:30:49,128 --> 00:30:51,428 And I didn't understand why he'd done it. 777 00:30:51,528 --> 00:30:52,828 And he wouldn't speak to me. 778 00:30:52,928 --> 00:30:54,948 - But he was talking to her. - I am really sorry. 779 00:30:55,048 --> 00:30:56,708 Sorry. 780 00:30:56,808 --> 00:30:59,228 It blew up on both sides of you because, you know, 781 00:30:59,328 --> 00:31:03,108 clearly we saw that things were tense between you and Danny, 782 00:31:03,208 --> 00:31:05,428 but what we didn't see was actually what happened 783 00:31:05,528 --> 00:31:07,308 once the dinner party had ended. 784 00:31:07,408 --> 00:31:09,408 Yeah. 785 00:31:28,488 --> 00:31:30,488 OK. That's alright. That's all good. 786 00:31:42,648 --> 00:31:44,648 That's OK, Danny. 787 00:32:18,769 --> 00:32:20,769 Yeah. 788 00:32:21,329 --> 00:32:23,269 I'm so sorry you had to deal with that. 789 00:32:23,369 --> 00:32:25,029 Oh, it's not for you to apologise. 790 00:32:25,129 --> 00:32:26,789 I just find it so funny because I... 791 00:32:26,889 --> 00:32:28,109 But it's not... That's not funny. 792 00:32:28,209 --> 00:32:30,229 Calling someone a little skank is not funny. 793 00:32:30,329 --> 00:32:32,069 I think the reason why maybe I'm laughing 794 00:32:32,169 --> 00:32:34,389 is because he was like, you've done this for air time. 795 00:32:34,489 --> 00:32:37,829 And I'm like, do you think I want to get screamed at 796 00:32:37,929 --> 00:32:40,229 by this woman for air time? 797 00:32:40,329 --> 00:32:42,589 Like, I'm happy just sitting at the fucking end of the table, 798 00:32:42,689 --> 00:32:43,989 minding my own business. 799 00:32:44,089 --> 00:32:45,229 He called you a skank. 800 00:32:45,329 --> 00:32:46,589 An effing little skank. 801 00:32:46,689 --> 00:32:49,909 I'm disgusted by the way that he spoke to you. 802 00:32:50,009 --> 00:32:53,469 To think that you can speak about a woman or anyone. 803 00:32:53,569 --> 00:32:54,669 To a woman! 804 00:32:54,769 --> 00:32:57,269 Actually, you're correct. To a woman that way. 805 00:32:57,369 --> 00:33:01,749 And, oh, I'm not being recorded, so it's going to be fine. No. 806 00:33:01,849 --> 00:33:05,069 So it just shows further that what we've been given 807 00:33:05,169 --> 00:33:09,829 of Danny is a manufactured version of Danny. 808 00:33:09,929 --> 00:33:11,509 You guys were friends. 809 00:33:11,609 --> 00:33:14,509 And all of this has obviously put a massive wedge 810 00:33:14,609 --> 00:33:16,709 in that relationship and in your friendship, 811 00:33:16,809 --> 00:33:18,909 how do you feel towards each other now? 812 00:33:19,009 --> 00:33:21,009 Oh, look, I mean... 813 00:33:21,529 --> 00:33:23,509 We're never going to be good friends again. 814 00:33:23,609 --> 00:33:25,629 No. And that's OK. 815 00:33:25,729 --> 00:33:27,909 The way that I behaved toward you was not OK. 816 00:33:28,009 --> 00:33:30,889 I was deflecting my anger on him to you. And I'm sorry. 817 00:33:31,889 --> 00:33:34,669 Guys, we do really wish you all the best. And I mean that. 818 00:33:34,769 --> 00:33:35,949 Every single one of you. 819 00:33:36,049 --> 00:33:37,549 We hope you find the loves of your life. 820 00:33:37,649 --> 00:33:39,629 We hope you had a wonderful time in the experiment 821 00:33:39,729 --> 00:33:40,829 from whatever happened. 822 00:33:40,929 --> 00:33:42,750 And we hope most of all that you learn something 823 00:33:42,850 --> 00:33:44,630 and take something away from it. That's what it's all about. 824 00:33:44,730 --> 00:33:46,430 Well, there is still plenty more to come tonight. 825 00:33:46,530 --> 00:33:49,910 They had the country crying happy tears at the final vows, 826 00:33:50,010 --> 00:33:52,150 and now Stella and Filip are here to share what's next, 827 00:33:52,250 --> 00:33:55,030 including the all-important wedding plans. 828 00:33:55,130 --> 00:33:57,270 Plus, after their explosive end, 829 00:33:57,370 --> 00:33:59,670 Alissa and David still have a lot to say. 830 00:33:59,770 --> 00:34:02,190 And we are not talking about Alissa's vows. 831 00:34:02,290 --> 00:34:04,270 But before we get stuck into all of that, 832 00:34:04,370 --> 00:34:06,710 it is time to hear what the trolls had to say this week. 833 00:34:06,810 --> 00:34:08,810 So here is Posted and Roasted. 834 00:34:21,650 --> 00:34:23,790 Listen, Mysy9, I considered it. 835 00:34:23,890 --> 00:34:26,130 I'm still considering it now, to be honest with you. 836 00:34:32,730 --> 00:34:34,110 Well, I definitely need a kidney 837 00:34:34,210 --> 00:34:36,210 after how many times I just got punched. 838 00:34:42,490 --> 00:34:44,810 I don't even get that. What do you mean? 839 00:34:46,090 --> 00:34:48,090 What does that mean? 840 00:34:48,730 --> 00:34:50,730 Oh, that's lame as though. 841 00:35:12,490 --> 00:35:14,530 Honey, he's taken. 842 00:35:21,890 --> 00:35:23,510 Look, I'll give you that one too, buddy. 843 00:35:23,610 --> 00:35:26,270 Look, I've probably kissed too many fish in my life, 844 00:35:26,370 --> 00:35:29,370 so I might have to, uh, practise on some more humans, hey? 845 00:35:33,890 --> 00:35:35,351 I do! 846 00:35:35,451 --> 00:35:37,811 How do you know the gays are here? 847 00:35:49,571 --> 00:35:51,431 Now you can say what you want about my gift. 848 00:35:51,531 --> 00:35:53,531 But don't come for my girl Tay Tay. 849 00:36:03,571 --> 00:36:05,711 Look, now I'm watching it back, I can see that. 850 00:36:05,811 --> 00:36:08,211 But you should have heard what the pillow talk was like, babe. 851 00:36:08,971 --> 00:36:10,311 I actually like these tweets. 852 00:36:10,411 --> 00:36:12,551 Keep them coming. That wasn't that bad. 853 00:36:13,851 --> 00:36:15,151 I mean, there was actually some kind of 854 00:36:15,251 --> 00:36:16,351 nice ones this time. 855 00:36:16,451 --> 00:36:17,751 Surprising, isn't it? 856 00:36:17,851 --> 00:36:20,071 Well, David and Alissa are waiting in the wings 857 00:36:20,171 --> 00:36:22,151 itching to get their sides of the story out 858 00:36:22,251 --> 00:36:24,871 after a dramatic end to their relationship. 859 00:36:24,971 --> 00:36:26,311 Now, before we get into it all, 860 00:36:26,411 --> 00:36:28,411 let's look back at how it unravelled. 861 00:36:30,091 --> 00:36:33,631 The ball is in my court today, and it breaks my heart 862 00:36:33,731 --> 00:36:36,831 knowing that I'm going to be breaking his heart 863 00:36:36,931 --> 00:36:38,351 at the end of this. 864 00:36:38,451 --> 00:36:41,911 What I've come to understand is that with you, 865 00:36:42,011 --> 00:36:44,011 there was no version of me that could win. 866 00:36:44,771 --> 00:36:48,271 I'm walking away because loving you 867 00:36:48,371 --> 00:36:50,371 shouldn't mean losing myself. 868 00:36:59,451 --> 00:37:01,451 You're not gonna listen to my vows? 869 00:37:02,331 --> 00:37:04,231 That was the most disrespectful thing 870 00:37:04,331 --> 00:37:06,331 that anyone has ever done to me. 871 00:37:07,211 --> 00:37:09,791 You're a coward, and your ego got the better of you. 872 00:37:09,891 --> 00:37:11,311 And you walk away like a little boy 873 00:37:11,411 --> 00:37:13,231 because you couldn't face the music. 874 00:37:13,331 --> 00:37:14,431 I walk in today, 875 00:37:14,531 --> 00:37:15,991 and the first thing you wanted me to do 876 00:37:16,091 --> 00:37:17,231 is apologise to you. 877 00:37:17,331 --> 00:37:19,071 You spat on my face. 878 00:37:19,171 --> 00:37:20,871 She calls me walking away spitting on her. 879 00:37:20,971 --> 00:37:22,151 You spat on my face. 880 00:37:22,251 --> 00:37:24,631 I don't want to bring all the dirty laundry out. 881 00:37:24,731 --> 00:37:26,271 You told me you went to Adelaide. 882 00:37:26,371 --> 00:37:28,392 On the flight back, did you or did you not 883 00:37:28,492 --> 00:37:30,912 get some friend's number? 884 00:37:31,012 --> 00:37:32,792 You got a man's number? 885 00:37:32,892 --> 00:37:34,152 Can I just say? 886 00:37:34,252 --> 00:37:35,992 Can I finish my spiel? And then you can go. 887 00:37:36,092 --> 00:37:37,672 You've been talking for the last ten minutes. 888 00:37:37,772 --> 00:37:39,432 You've been talking more than everyone here 889 00:37:39,532 --> 00:37:41,072 for the last 20 minutes. So let me speak. 890 00:37:41,172 --> 00:37:43,172 Moving on. You're not my person. I'm moving on. 891 00:37:44,532 --> 00:37:48,892 It really hurts because I was falling in love with him. 892 00:37:50,252 --> 00:37:51,632 But I don't know. 893 00:37:51,732 --> 00:37:53,732 I don't know that man. 894 00:37:54,412 --> 00:37:56,592 I don't know who he is. 895 00:37:56,692 --> 00:37:59,912 Oh, Alissa and David, welcome first. 896 00:38:00,012 --> 00:38:02,352 This has been a really hard two weeks to watch back. 897 00:38:02,452 --> 00:38:04,112 Has it been hard for you guys to watch? 898 00:38:04,212 --> 00:38:05,712 I haven't been watching it. It's been a lot. 899 00:38:05,812 --> 00:38:07,312 Yeah, it's a lot of emotions. 900 00:38:07,412 --> 00:38:09,272 Like I've watched bits and pieces, 901 00:38:09,372 --> 00:38:12,192 but it's just it's really hard to watch. Yeah, it's... 902 00:38:12,292 --> 00:38:14,112 Is it the emotions around the break-up? 903 00:38:14,212 --> 00:38:15,992 Are you not watching it because you don't, 904 00:38:16,092 --> 00:38:18,912 the behaviour, like, what is it about what we're seeing 905 00:38:19,012 --> 00:38:20,632 that's too hard for you to watch now? 906 00:38:20,732 --> 00:38:22,632 It's a very unhappy version of myself. 907 00:38:22,732 --> 00:38:24,672 Is it hard to watch back the behaviour? 908 00:38:24,772 --> 00:38:28,192 Um, it's... I wouldn't say it's the behaviour. 909 00:38:28,292 --> 00:38:31,272 It's just not a happy version of myself. 910 00:38:31,372 --> 00:38:33,672 It's hard, it's just really hard to watch. 911 00:38:33,772 --> 00:38:35,552 I'm trying to find my words. 912 00:38:35,652 --> 00:38:37,072 I'll phrase it differently. 913 00:38:37,172 --> 00:38:40,272 Do you watch it back and feel proud 914 00:38:40,372 --> 00:38:41,952 or OK with your behaviour? 915 00:38:42,052 --> 00:38:43,832 Oh, no. Like, I've learned so much. 916 00:38:43,932 --> 00:38:45,872 Like this happened six months ago 917 00:38:45,972 --> 00:38:48,832 and you watch back on things and... 918 00:38:48,932 --> 00:38:51,912 oh, gosh, that was not a version of myself that I'm proud of. 919 00:38:52,012 --> 00:38:54,912 Alissa, I want to hear from you 920 00:38:55,012 --> 00:38:58,032 how you feel this deteriorated. 921 00:38:58,132 --> 00:38:59,872 There was just something inside me 922 00:38:59,972 --> 00:39:01,672 that I couldn't put my finger on it. 923 00:39:01,772 --> 00:39:03,032 Like, there was something wrong. 924 00:39:03,132 --> 00:39:04,672 It was just a feeling. 925 00:39:04,772 --> 00:39:07,232 Do you think that you were looking for something 926 00:39:07,332 --> 00:39:08,752 to pin a reason onto? 927 00:39:08,852 --> 00:39:11,912 Because it really did feel like at home towns, you spiralled. 928 00:39:12,012 --> 00:39:13,912 And when it was the test, 929 00:39:14,012 --> 00:39:17,152 the whole fight with the ring being taken off. 930 00:39:17,252 --> 00:39:19,073 It was like you had something. 931 00:39:19,173 --> 00:39:21,953 Have a reason to be so angry and you could not let it go. 932 00:39:22,053 --> 00:39:23,193 I couldn't let it go. No. 933 00:39:23,293 --> 00:39:24,713 I think everything was just heightened 934 00:39:24,813 --> 00:39:26,393 in that moment. 935 00:39:26,493 --> 00:39:28,493 And I was just like, uh, nah. 936 00:39:28,813 --> 00:39:31,313 I know that we started to cling to things 937 00:39:31,413 --> 00:39:33,153 once it unravelled, 938 00:39:33,253 --> 00:39:35,473 but actually, in its very essence, 939 00:39:35,573 --> 00:39:37,713 why did it not work? 940 00:39:37,813 --> 00:39:41,153 I feel like over time, I think Alissa just realised 941 00:39:41,253 --> 00:39:42,793 it wasn't the right fit for her. 942 00:39:42,893 --> 00:39:45,113 If I look back, I don't know if you were fully into it 943 00:39:45,213 --> 00:39:47,153 from the start and that's fine. 944 00:39:47,253 --> 00:39:48,793 That's my... that's what I think. 945 00:39:48,893 --> 00:39:50,993 If it wasn't for that commitment ceremony, 946 00:39:51,093 --> 00:39:53,193 I think that's where it really crumbled for me. 947 00:39:53,293 --> 00:39:54,713 OK. That's fair. 948 00:39:54,813 --> 00:39:56,793 I was going in there and I'm like, let's get the tools 949 00:39:56,893 --> 00:39:59,113 that we need from the experts to be able to move forward. 950 00:39:59,213 --> 00:40:01,993 And I don't know about you, but I remember we both were like, 951 00:40:02,093 --> 00:40:03,393 what tools did we get? 952 00:40:03,493 --> 00:40:04,833 Mel gave us a great tool. 953 00:40:04,933 --> 00:40:07,313 She said, talk this through. 954 00:40:07,413 --> 00:40:09,633 What happens when I get home? Alissa moves out. 955 00:40:09,733 --> 00:40:12,513 My frustration after that commitment ceremony was 956 00:40:12,613 --> 00:40:15,513 babe, like, why is this the last commitment ceremony? 957 00:40:15,613 --> 00:40:18,953 And it's like this, this, this, this, this. 958 00:40:19,053 --> 00:40:22,233 But watching it back now, can you I guess, Alissa, 959 00:40:22,333 --> 00:40:24,073 see the times where David tried to speak 960 00:40:24,173 --> 00:40:27,073 and you weren't giving him the space 961 00:40:27,173 --> 00:40:29,153 in the communication to do so? 962 00:40:29,253 --> 00:40:31,153 Oh, there were definitely areas 963 00:40:31,253 --> 00:40:33,593 that I could do better listening for sure. 964 00:40:33,693 --> 00:40:36,073 And I watched back and I'm like, gosh, Alissa, 965 00:40:36,173 --> 00:40:37,473 just let him talk. 966 00:40:37,573 --> 00:40:39,273 You know, just let him speak. Let the man speak. 967 00:40:39,373 --> 00:40:40,753 We were screaming at the TV. 968 00:40:40,853 --> 00:40:43,033 You were saying, "Why won't you talk to me?" 969 00:40:43,133 --> 00:40:45,513 over the top of him trying to talk. 970 00:40:45,613 --> 00:40:47,113 Did you feel that at the time, David? 971 00:40:47,213 --> 00:40:48,993 But yeah, I definitely felt like there were times 972 00:40:49,093 --> 00:40:51,233 where I tried to bring up something, and I don't know, 973 00:40:51,333 --> 00:40:53,993 if it didn't sound too good to you, it'd get shut down. 974 00:40:54,093 --> 00:40:57,353 What's sad about this is by the time the truth came out, 975 00:40:57,453 --> 00:40:59,873 you didn't have enough time with the experts to work through it. 976 00:40:59,973 --> 00:41:01,353 It was a horrible time to unravel. 977 00:41:01,453 --> 00:41:02,553 It was the worst. 978 00:41:02,653 --> 00:41:04,233 We did have great times together, you know, 979 00:41:04,333 --> 00:41:05,553 we made so many memories together. 980 00:41:05,653 --> 00:41:06,873 But you know what? 981 00:41:06,973 --> 00:41:09,393 Like, he just wasn't my person, you know? 982 00:41:09,493 --> 00:41:10,753 And that is OK. 983 00:41:10,853 --> 00:41:13,034 And when you get that gut feeling and you're feeling like 984 00:41:13,134 --> 00:41:15,874 there's something missing for me, that is OK too. 985 00:41:15,974 --> 00:41:17,634 Sometimes when you have that gut feeling 986 00:41:17,734 --> 00:41:18,834 but you don't have a reason, 987 00:41:18,934 --> 00:41:21,594 it's what makes you clutch onto those reasons even tighter. 988 00:41:21,694 --> 00:41:23,954 So then when there was something that David did, 989 00:41:24,054 --> 00:41:26,074 instead of being able to get over it, it was like... 990 00:41:26,174 --> 00:41:27,314 It was heightened. 991 00:41:27,414 --> 00:41:28,754 And I look back on that 992 00:41:28,854 --> 00:41:30,554 and I've learned so much about myself. 993 00:41:30,654 --> 00:41:33,754 Alissa, I know that you haven't watched it back, 994 00:41:33,854 --> 00:41:36,314 but how do you feel you might have responded 995 00:41:36,414 --> 00:41:38,594 in the final test date? 996 00:41:38,694 --> 00:41:42,314 And is that behaviour acceptable in your eyes now? 997 00:41:42,414 --> 00:41:45,274 Oh, no. I was definitely just on the wines 998 00:41:45,374 --> 00:41:48,314 and I did cross boundaries definitely with my jokes. 999 00:41:48,414 --> 00:41:50,914 But also following Conor on Instagram 1000 00:41:51,014 --> 00:41:53,354 felt like a bit of a betrayal. 1001 00:41:53,454 --> 00:41:54,634 Yeah, and you know what? 1002 00:41:54,734 --> 00:41:56,074 That probably wasn't the wisest thing. 1003 00:41:56,174 --> 00:41:57,274 Probably? 1004 00:41:57,374 --> 00:41:58,994 Wasn't the smartest move for sure. 1005 00:41:59,094 --> 00:42:00,234 You live and you learn. 1006 00:42:00,334 --> 00:42:02,554 The reality was, is that that whole thing was a final test 1007 00:42:02,654 --> 00:42:04,634 and like going away and then adding that person 1008 00:42:04,734 --> 00:42:07,714 on Instagram does feel like you failed the test in some ways. 1009 00:42:07,814 --> 00:42:09,154 You know what I mean? Like, that... 1010 00:42:09,254 --> 00:42:12,434 The test was to test if the grass was greener. 1011 00:42:12,534 --> 00:42:14,314 If it was like a random girl 1012 00:42:14,414 --> 00:42:16,834 who was going to give me perspective on my relationship, 1013 00:42:16,934 --> 00:42:18,554 I'll sit there all day, every day. 1014 00:42:18,654 --> 00:42:20,894 But these girls obviously... 1015 00:42:21,734 --> 00:42:24,634 I'll be honest, I left the experiment 1016 00:42:24,734 --> 00:42:26,314 and three of them were in my DMs, so. 1017 00:42:26,414 --> 00:42:27,514 They've been in our DMs. 1018 00:42:27,614 --> 00:42:28,714 They've been in everyone's DMs. 1019 00:42:28,814 --> 00:42:32,074 Yeah, they... Not in Jules's. Not on Jules's DMs. 1020 00:42:32,174 --> 00:42:34,154 It's at Jules Lund lowercase... 1021 00:42:34,254 --> 00:42:37,034 So all I'm saying is I would go back 1022 00:42:37,134 --> 00:42:38,234 and do the same thing again. 1023 00:42:38,334 --> 00:42:40,834 In that moment after the final test when he brought it up 1024 00:42:40,934 --> 00:42:42,994 and he said he felt really hurt. 1025 00:42:43,094 --> 00:42:44,234 Yeah, I wasn't hearing him. 1026 00:42:44,334 --> 00:42:47,474 And I will I would admit that I shut off 1027 00:42:47,574 --> 00:42:49,154 and I pushed back and I... 1028 00:42:49,254 --> 00:42:50,554 I was mad. 1029 00:42:50,654 --> 00:42:51,954 You turned it against him. 1030 00:42:52,054 --> 00:42:55,794 And whilst he took his ring off, then you grabbed on to that. 1031 00:42:55,894 --> 00:42:59,474 Yeah. And that's not... I look back on these clips. 1032 00:42:59,574 --> 00:43:02,634 I'm like, girl, that's like, you're way blowing that shit 1033 00:43:02,734 --> 00:43:03,995 out of proportion, like... 1034 00:43:04,095 --> 00:43:07,355 David, we saw you declaring your love every which way, 1035 00:43:07,455 --> 00:43:09,475 on your knees, standing up, walking around the room. 1036 00:43:09,575 --> 00:43:11,715 Then it was only a couple of days later that we saw you 1037 00:43:11,815 --> 00:43:13,995 deliver your vows and walk away. 1038 00:43:14,095 --> 00:43:17,075 What happened in those two days for you to make that switch? 1039 00:43:17,175 --> 00:43:20,435 The last sort of straw for me was the last dinner party. 1040 00:43:20,535 --> 00:43:24,515 I was really trying and fighting for the relationship, 1041 00:43:24,615 --> 00:43:27,715 because I came into this experiment to change my ways 1042 00:43:27,815 --> 00:43:29,235 and actually dropped my ego and be like, 1043 00:43:29,335 --> 00:43:30,995 yo, I'm giving you everything. 1044 00:43:31,095 --> 00:43:32,395 Let's see what I can get back. 1045 00:43:32,495 --> 00:43:34,775 So that last dinner party was my last plea. 1046 00:43:35,455 --> 00:43:37,435 It breaks my heart knowing that, you know, 1047 00:43:37,535 --> 00:43:40,075 I'm going to hurt this man that told me he loved me. 1048 00:43:40,175 --> 00:43:41,395 And I just couldn't say it back. 1049 00:43:41,495 --> 00:43:44,035 We have. We said it off-camera a couple. 1050 00:43:44,135 --> 00:43:45,675 David! Woah! 1051 00:43:45,775 --> 00:43:48,555 - Alissa, did you? - I didn't say I love you. 1052 00:43:48,655 --> 00:43:49,755 I never said I loved him. 1053 00:43:49,855 --> 00:43:51,035 - It's happened. - When? 1054 00:43:51,135 --> 00:43:52,355 In the apartments. 1055 00:43:52,455 --> 00:43:54,795 I know you probably had a little to drink. 1056 00:43:54,895 --> 00:43:57,155 How many times has this happened? 1057 00:43:57,255 --> 00:43:58,675 I'd say twice it's happened. 1058 00:43:58,775 --> 00:44:00,235 I never said "I love you." 1059 00:44:00,335 --> 00:44:02,435 I said I was falling in love with you. 1060 00:44:02,535 --> 00:44:03,835 But I didn't say I love you, David. 1061 00:44:03,935 --> 00:44:05,235 That's alright. 1062 00:44:05,335 --> 00:44:09,555 David, why do you think it pissed off Alissa so much 1063 00:44:09,655 --> 00:44:10,915 that you walked away? 1064 00:44:11,015 --> 00:44:14,355 I don't know, I feel like maybe you wanted 1065 00:44:14,455 --> 00:44:15,595 to have the final say. 1066 00:44:15,695 --> 00:44:17,075 I didn't want to have the final say. 1067 00:44:17,175 --> 00:44:20,075 Like, I have enough respect for what we built. 1068 00:44:20,175 --> 00:44:21,875 Were you pissed off that 1069 00:44:21,975 --> 00:44:23,835 you weren't going to be able to deliver those? 1070 00:44:23,935 --> 00:44:26,795 Or that you were sad because you were breaking his heart? 1071 00:44:26,895 --> 00:44:27,995 No, I wasn't pissed off. 1072 00:44:28,095 --> 00:44:29,675 You were pissed off because you wanted an apology. 1073 00:44:29,775 --> 00:44:31,635 Oh, when I got to the dinner party. 1074 00:44:31,735 --> 00:44:33,875 And that was three weeks later, 1075 00:44:33,975 --> 00:44:36,475 after processing how I felt after that moment. 1076 00:44:36,575 --> 00:44:38,395 And so you arrived at anger? 1077 00:44:38,495 --> 00:44:40,715 Well, what happens, first, you hurt. 1078 00:44:40,815 --> 00:44:43,075 And then the anger comes after the hurt. 1079 00:44:43,175 --> 00:44:45,915 What comes after anger? And where are you now? 1080 00:44:46,015 --> 00:44:47,715 I'm so happy in my life right now. 1081 00:44:47,815 --> 00:44:51,235 You know, I feel like you learn a lot about yourself 1082 00:44:51,335 --> 00:44:52,635 within that environment. 1083 00:44:52,735 --> 00:44:55,235 I could have done better. I could have let him speak more. 1084 00:44:55,335 --> 00:44:57,276 And I should have just articulated myself 1085 00:44:57,376 --> 00:44:58,556 in a better way. 1086 00:44:58,656 --> 00:45:00,676 And obviously, I've been able to move forward 1087 00:45:00,776 --> 00:45:03,476 and am so in love and so happy. 1088 00:45:03,576 --> 00:45:08,196 And I wouldn't be here if I hadn't have gone through 1089 00:45:08,296 --> 00:45:10,076 what I went through last year, you know. 1090 00:45:10,176 --> 00:45:12,476 Alissa, we have seen that you're in a new relationship 1091 00:45:12,576 --> 00:45:14,816 and we are so excited for you. 1092 00:45:15,416 --> 00:45:17,596 How does it feel and where are you at in your life? 1093 00:45:17,696 --> 00:45:19,836 I am so in love. 1094 00:45:19,936 --> 00:45:23,036 Never felt like this before in any previous relationship. 1095 00:45:23,136 --> 00:45:24,956 Block your ears. 1096 00:45:25,056 --> 00:45:27,276 I thought I knew what love was and that feeling. 1097 00:45:27,376 --> 00:45:29,476 But this is a connection I can't even describe. 1098 00:45:29,576 --> 00:45:34,516 And I feel so lucky to have this man by my side. 1099 00:45:34,616 --> 00:45:35,956 David, are there any lucky ladies? 1100 00:45:36,056 --> 00:45:39,876 Oh, um, I am dating. Um, I am dating. 1101 00:45:39,976 --> 00:45:41,196 Dating multiples or one? 1102 00:45:41,296 --> 00:45:44,316 I'm in the dating market. Let's put it like that. 1103 00:45:44,416 --> 00:45:45,596 - The DMs are open! - Multiples. 1104 00:45:45,696 --> 00:45:46,876 Life is great. 1105 00:45:46,976 --> 00:45:48,156 That's all I'm going to say. 1106 00:45:48,256 --> 00:45:50,636 Well, David and Alissa, thank you so much for joining us. 1107 00:45:50,736 --> 00:45:52,436 We really appreciate your time. 1108 00:45:52,536 --> 00:45:54,316 Look, while it didn't work out for you guys, 1109 00:45:54,416 --> 00:45:56,116 there of course, was one couple 1110 00:45:56,216 --> 00:45:58,036 that kept our faith in love alive. 1111 00:45:58,136 --> 00:45:59,836 And that was Stella and Filip, 1112 00:45:59,936 --> 00:46:02,116 who will be joining us in just a moment. 1113 00:46:02,216 --> 00:46:04,856 But first, let's take a look back at their magic. 1114 00:46:06,696 --> 00:46:08,396 Can't believe we're at the end here. Like, just... 1115 00:46:08,496 --> 00:46:09,596 Yeah. 1116 00:46:09,696 --> 00:46:11,876 It's crazy. Like, I actually do not want to 1117 00:46:11,976 --> 00:46:13,976 spend a day without him. 1118 00:46:16,736 --> 00:46:20,036 I asked the experts to be the love story 1119 00:46:20,136 --> 00:46:22,136 and my wish got granted. 1120 00:46:22,896 --> 00:46:26,436 Decision process for the final vows is non-existent for me. 1121 00:46:26,536 --> 00:46:28,436 I have very clear writing on the wall. 1122 00:46:28,536 --> 00:46:30,536 He's my man. That's it. 1123 00:46:32,736 --> 00:46:34,756 I thought that I was never going to experience 1124 00:46:34,856 --> 00:46:36,856 a love like this. 1125 00:46:37,176 --> 00:46:39,636 And I want to be with her for the rest of my life. 1126 00:46:39,736 --> 00:46:41,736 - Hi. - How are you going, baby? 1127 00:46:42,456 --> 00:46:43,636 I came here to look for love. 1128 00:46:43,736 --> 00:46:46,196 And what I found was far more profound. 1129 00:46:46,296 --> 00:46:48,296 I found home in you. 1130 00:46:48,617 --> 00:46:52,577 Stella, I love you more than I ever thought possible 1131 00:46:53,217 --> 00:46:55,937 and have never felt more certain of anything. 1132 00:47:03,657 --> 00:47:05,657 Stella, 1133 00:47:06,017 --> 00:47:08,017 will you marry me? 1134 00:47:18,017 --> 00:47:19,797 Tonight I'm not just walking in with someone. 1135 00:47:19,897 --> 00:47:21,797 I'm walking in with my fiance. 1136 00:47:21,897 --> 00:47:23,397 Uh, we've been keeping a secret. 1137 00:47:23,497 --> 00:47:25,197 I got down on one knee. 1138 00:47:28,657 --> 00:47:31,557 Cheers. 1139 00:47:31,657 --> 00:47:34,317 When you look at Stella, what do you see? 1140 00:47:34,417 --> 00:47:36,417 My future. 1141 00:47:36,737 --> 00:47:38,797 And you, Stella? 1142 00:47:38,897 --> 00:47:40,897 Home. 1143 00:47:42,337 --> 00:47:46,597 It's been such a pleasure to witness this 1144 00:47:46,697 --> 00:47:48,697 for all three of us. 1145 00:47:49,497 --> 00:47:50,837 You're an incredible team, 1146 00:47:50,937 --> 00:47:54,117 and we wish you both all the very best. 1147 00:47:54,217 --> 00:47:55,757 - That you very much. - Thank you. Appreciate it. 1148 00:47:55,857 --> 00:47:57,857 Thanks for everything. Seriously. 1149 00:47:58,737 --> 00:47:59,997 I'm actually crying. 1150 00:48:00,097 --> 00:48:02,157 I'm not crying. You're crying. 1151 00:48:03,977 --> 00:48:06,137 - Stella and Filip! - Everyone's crying. 1152 00:48:07,177 --> 00:48:09,597 That squeal when you looked at your ring. 1153 00:48:09,697 --> 00:48:11,197 I still can't believe it 1154 00:48:11,297 --> 00:48:13,797 because I couldn't wear it for, like, four months? 1155 00:48:13,897 --> 00:48:15,277 No, five? I don't know how long. 1156 00:48:15,377 --> 00:48:17,197 - It was just sitting in... - Show me. 1157 00:48:17,297 --> 00:48:18,997 It was just sitting in the shelf and I'm like, 1158 00:48:19,097 --> 00:48:20,677 yes, finally on! 1159 00:48:20,777 --> 00:48:23,037 And also there's something, you have to keep this secret 1160 00:48:23,137 --> 00:48:24,437 that you've had for so long. 1161 00:48:24,537 --> 00:48:26,877 And like, you know, most people are keeping a secret of, like, 1162 00:48:26,977 --> 00:48:28,397 are we or aren't we together? 1163 00:48:28,497 --> 00:48:31,197 And you're keeping a secret of, like, not only are we together, 1164 00:48:31,297 --> 00:48:32,717 we're engaged. 1165 00:48:32,817 --> 00:48:33,957 It's really hard. 1166 00:48:34,057 --> 00:48:35,197 It was really hard. 1167 00:48:35,297 --> 00:48:36,917 Like, yeah, we just had to literally keep hush hush. 1168 00:48:37,017 --> 00:48:38,557 We were hoping that and we were hopeful that 1169 00:48:38,657 --> 00:48:39,837 it wouldn't come out. 1170 00:48:39,937 --> 00:48:42,598 The number one rule was do not just get caught with it 1171 00:48:42,698 --> 00:48:44,438 wearing it out in public. And that's what we did. 1172 00:48:44,538 --> 00:48:45,758 I actually forgot what it looked like. 1173 00:48:45,858 --> 00:48:47,558 Now we get acquainted again. So it's all good. 1174 00:48:47,658 --> 00:48:48,798 We can just rock it. 1175 00:48:48,898 --> 00:48:52,278 When did you know? Because I feel like at the end, 1176 00:48:52,378 --> 00:48:53,758 it must have been this moment of like, 1177 00:48:53,858 --> 00:48:55,118 I know I'm committed to her. 1178 00:48:55,218 --> 00:48:57,398 Like, I know I want a future with Stella, 1179 00:48:57,498 --> 00:48:58,918 but when were you like, holy moly, 1180 00:48:59,018 --> 00:49:00,318 I'm leaving this with a fiance? 1181 00:49:00,418 --> 00:49:01,958 I was talking to Mum and Dad, 1182 00:49:02,058 --> 00:49:05,038 Dad's, like, Filip, she's your person. 1183 00:49:05,138 --> 00:49:08,438 Like, when I saw mum, this is how it was 1184 00:49:08,538 --> 00:49:10,278 like, you know, like, when you know, you know, 1185 00:49:10,378 --> 00:49:11,678 don't look at what could go wrong, 1186 00:49:11,778 --> 00:49:12,998 what could go right kind of thing. 1187 00:49:13,098 --> 00:49:14,798 And, that was it. Like, after... 1188 00:49:14,898 --> 00:49:17,598 Yeah, after the hometown visits, that's when I really knew that, 1189 00:49:17,698 --> 00:49:18,838 yeah, she's my person. 1190 00:49:18,938 --> 00:49:20,638 Like, this is happening. 1191 00:49:20,738 --> 00:49:23,318 Like, I'm so giddy with, like, how cute this is. 1192 00:49:23,418 --> 00:49:25,558 Yeah. Sometimes you get lost in the sauce with all the drama, 1193 00:49:25,658 --> 00:49:27,318 all the high school stuff. But it's real. 1194 00:49:27,418 --> 00:49:29,358 What we were building from day dot was real. 1195 00:49:29,458 --> 00:49:32,518 You nailed it because, like, at the end of the day, 1196 00:49:32,618 --> 00:49:34,078 very real couples come out of this. 1197 00:49:34,178 --> 00:49:37,158 This changes your life forever. 1198 00:49:37,258 --> 00:49:38,838 It must have been such an incredibly hard thing 1199 00:49:38,938 --> 00:49:40,118 to keep a secret. 1200 00:49:40,218 --> 00:49:41,678 But also, I can only imagine that the nerves 1201 00:49:41,778 --> 00:49:42,878 you must have been feeling. 1202 00:49:42,978 --> 00:49:45,438 The team did come across this off-camera 1203 00:49:45,538 --> 00:49:46,638 and very unguarded moment 1204 00:49:46,738 --> 00:49:48,118 just before you popped the question. 1205 00:49:48,218 --> 00:49:50,498 I was pissing so hard. I was pissing like a racehorse. 1206 00:49:58,418 --> 00:50:00,418 Yeah. So I don't know if it's... Yeah. 1207 00:50:37,219 --> 00:50:39,219 Oh, my god! 1208 00:50:44,819 --> 00:50:46,819 Oh, my god. 1209 00:50:52,659 --> 00:50:54,479 I love that. 1210 00:50:54,579 --> 00:50:55,679 Oh, Lord. 1211 00:50:55,779 --> 00:50:57,679 How many nervous wees did you end up doing? 1212 00:50:57,779 --> 00:50:58,919 Eight or nine. 1213 00:50:59,019 --> 00:51:01,919 I was standing there and I'm like, I was so nervous. 1214 00:51:02,019 --> 00:51:04,119 Like it was just, a lot went into it. 1215 00:51:04,219 --> 00:51:05,479 I wanted it more than anything. 1216 00:51:05,579 --> 00:51:08,599 Like, I just, yeah, I just wanted it, her to as well, 1217 00:51:08,699 --> 00:51:10,079 not think that it was for the cameras. 1218 00:51:10,179 --> 00:51:11,719 Can I just input. 1219 00:51:11,819 --> 00:51:13,319 What we saw at the wedding 1220 00:51:13,419 --> 00:51:15,919 and what was the big thing of my friends basically, 1221 00:51:16,019 --> 00:51:17,639 are you here for the right reasons? 1222 00:51:17,739 --> 00:51:19,759 That really planted a big seed in my mind. 1223 00:51:19,859 --> 00:51:21,159 For probably half of the experiment, 1224 00:51:21,259 --> 00:51:22,959 I was like, are you here for the right reasons? 1225 00:51:23,059 --> 00:51:26,319 Because it was so in my brain. 1226 00:51:26,419 --> 00:51:28,279 But I think that that's a normal part when you, 1227 00:51:28,379 --> 00:51:30,719 especially when you're a couple that's met on MAFS 1228 00:51:30,819 --> 00:51:32,599 or in any reality TV, 1229 00:51:32,699 --> 00:51:34,319 you're going to go through those moments where you're like, 1230 00:51:34,419 --> 00:51:35,679 are you here for the right reason? 1231 00:51:35,779 --> 00:51:37,159 Is this real? 1232 00:51:37,259 --> 00:51:41,119 And like, actually, oh, it makes me so emotional because 1233 00:51:41,219 --> 00:51:44,079 I got this, you know, like, I have three beautiful girls 1234 00:51:44,179 --> 00:51:46,599 because I got this from a reality TV show. 1235 00:51:46,699 --> 00:51:49,799 And there is a period where you question and you're like, 1236 00:51:49,899 --> 00:51:52,399 is it possible that this could be real? 1237 00:51:52,499 --> 00:51:54,999 Because it feels like it's an unbelievably lucky thing 1238 00:51:55,099 --> 00:51:56,279 to come across. 1239 00:51:56,379 --> 00:51:58,039 It makes it feel like it's you against the world. 1240 00:51:58,139 --> 00:51:59,639 And that's what I have in my husband. 1241 00:51:59,739 --> 00:52:02,919 And honestly, like the most beautiful family I have, 1242 00:52:03,019 --> 00:52:04,999 an incredible husband. 1243 00:52:05,099 --> 00:52:07,239 And like, that's going to be you guys in ten years' time. 1244 00:52:07,339 --> 00:52:09,319 - How good. Yes. - Quicker, quicker! 1245 00:52:09,419 --> 00:52:11,919 Can I congratulate you on the new bundle of joy? 1246 00:52:13,339 --> 00:52:15,079 Got a puppy! 1247 00:52:15,179 --> 00:52:16,399 Where is he? 1248 00:52:16,499 --> 00:52:18,499 - It's not a puppy. - Got ya! 1249 00:52:18,939 --> 00:52:21,039 - I just died, OK? - Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 1250 00:52:21,139 --> 00:52:23,359 Love the reaction. Love it. 1251 00:52:23,459 --> 00:52:24,799 But we know you don't have the snip. 1252 00:52:24,899 --> 00:52:26,000 So it could be real. 1253 00:52:26,100 --> 00:52:27,520 It could be real, hey? We don't know. 1254 00:52:27,620 --> 00:52:28,840 - What? - Nothing. 1255 00:52:30,580 --> 00:52:32,080 We got a timer, we got a timer. 1256 00:52:32,180 --> 00:52:33,800 - Someone got this... - 40. 1257 00:52:33,900 --> 00:52:35,400 The dog got the snip. 1258 00:52:35,500 --> 00:52:38,080 Someone had to get the snip Someone's getting the snip. 1259 00:52:38,180 --> 00:52:39,280 You know? 1260 00:52:39,380 --> 00:52:41,040 Do you feel like this is a dream come true? 1261 00:52:41,140 --> 00:52:43,160 - Yeah. - I can't believe it. 1262 00:52:43,260 --> 00:52:44,560 I actually can't believe it. 1263 00:52:44,660 --> 00:52:47,480 But look, we did work really hard at it, though. 1264 00:52:47,580 --> 00:52:49,920 And in saying that, it wasn't all kittens and rainbows. 1265 00:52:50,020 --> 00:52:52,000 Uh, we had serious discussions at all the time. 1266 00:52:52,100 --> 00:52:53,480 We were constantly tested. 1267 00:52:53,580 --> 00:52:55,800 It set us up for success, you know? 1268 00:52:55,900 --> 00:52:58,720 Guys, Congratulations. We love love. 1269 00:52:58,820 --> 00:53:01,360 We are absolutely thrilled for you guys 1270 00:53:01,460 --> 00:53:03,880 and we cannot wait to see what happens next. 1271 00:53:03,980 --> 00:53:05,320 And you guys are so lucky. 1272 00:53:05,420 --> 00:53:06,600 Not only that you fell in love, 1273 00:53:06,700 --> 00:53:09,640 but you can watch your love story back whenever you want. 1274 00:53:09,740 --> 00:53:11,120 I can't wait to see the wedding. 1275 00:53:11,220 --> 00:53:12,400 I'm sure it's going to be spectacular. 1276 00:53:12,500 --> 00:53:13,760 - Yeah, can't believe it. - Such a gift. 1277 00:53:13,860 --> 00:53:15,720 Well, that is all we have time for tonight. 1278 00:53:15,820 --> 00:53:19,240 But never fear, we have one more MAFS special up our sleeve. 1279 00:53:19,340 --> 00:53:21,320 It's going to be a mammoth episode 1280 00:53:21,420 --> 00:53:22,560 with fan favourites returning 1281 00:53:22,660 --> 00:53:24,040 and a few faces you never thought 1282 00:53:24,140 --> 00:53:25,440 that you were going to see again. 1283 00:53:25,540 --> 00:53:29,280 Tea will be spilt, grievances aired and rumours debunked. 1284 00:53:29,380 --> 00:53:33,280 It will be the juiciest take on Where Are they Now yet. 1285 00:53:33,380 --> 00:53:36,040 That's next Monday, right here on Stan. 1286 00:53:36,140 --> 00:53:37,280 See you then. 1287 00:53:37,380 --> 00:53:38,480 Alright. 1288 00:53:40,580 --> 00:53:42,580 Jules, take the lid off! 1289 00:53:43,300 --> 00:53:44,920 Ahhhh! 1290 00:53:47,220 --> 00:53:48,880 Let's go. 1291 00:53:48,980 --> 00:53:51,180 - Congrats! - Thank you very much.